The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
In a number of cases hatred may be felt, not--as usually happens--towards
the parent of the same sex as that of the child, but towards the parent
of the _opposite_ sex. This abnormality may arise in some cases from a
general tendency to homosexuality on the part of the child, in which
case he is apt to suffer from an "inverted Œdipus complex", as Ferenczi
has termed it; love being felt towards the parent of the same sex and
jealousy towards the parent of the opposite sex; the emotions being of
the same quality as those met with in the usual form of the complex but
opposite in direction. Quite apart, however, from any tendency to sexual
inversion, the hatred of the parent of the opposite sex may, in other
cases, arise secondarily as a consequence of the natural tendency of this
parent to display affection towards the other parent (_i. e._ from the
child's point of view, to give undue attention to a sexual rival). The
hatred thus secondarily aroused towards the original object of love may
manifest itself openly in consciousness or may suffer various degrees of
repression, in the same manner as the more usual hatred towards the parent
of the same sex. The importance and interest of this secondary hatred lies
principally in its influence on certain forms of displacement to which we
shall have to refer in a later chapter.
FOOTNOTES:
[Footnote 32: An excellent condensed treatment of many of the effects
of incestuous fixation will be found in K. Abraham's "Die Stellung
der Verwandtenche in der Psychologie der Neurosen." _Jahrbuch für
psychoanalytische und psychopathologische Forschungen_, 1909, I., 110.]
[Footnote 33: In a rather extreme case known to the writer a woman of
about 35 had never been able to leave home without the most intense
feelings of sorrow and loneliness, which usually impelled her to return
precipitately after the absence of a day or two. In childhood she could
seldom be induced to go more than a mile or so from her home unless
accompanied by her parents and in later life neurotic symptoms were
developed which effectually prevented her from living apart from her
nearest relatives. As was to be expected, analysis revealed a very strong
parent fixation, and after treatment she was able to fill a responsible
post in a town far removed from the residence of her family.]
[Footnote 34: _Cp._ M. Steiner, "Die funktionelle Impotenz des Mannes und
ihre Behandlung," 1913.
Freud, "Beiträge zur Psychologie des Liebeslebens." _Jahrbuch für
psychoanalytische und psychopathologische Forschungen_, 1912, IV, 40.
Ferenczi, "Contributions to Psycho-Analysis," 9.]
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