The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
In a secondary and "rationalised" sense, this process of re-birth from
the grandfather has been interpreted as the expression of a desire to
re-create the youth as the son of his tribe rather than as the son of
his mother, _i. e._ to symbolise and emphasise the fact that he has now
exchanged the narrow sphere of family rule and affection for the wider one
of obedience and loyalty to the community; at the same time representing a
means of obtaining freedom from the old fixation of love upon the mother
(since he is now born not from her but from the tribal ancestor), and
through this of becoming reconciled to the father. This same motive of
reconciliation based on the renunciation of incestuous desire and on the
establishment of common love and interest between those of the same sex,
is exemplified also in the Age Classes, Men's Clubs and Secret Societies
found in so many primitive peoples, to membership of which women are in
the majority of cases rigorously excluded.
Thus it would appear that the ideas underlying the almost universal social
custom of the initiation ceremony are those which we have already met
with in the study of the development of the individual mind in relation
to the family: showing thereby that these ideas are to be found not only
in minds of a certain constitution or of a particular age, race, or
type of culture, but represent a general human characteristic, having
its foundations deeply rooted in the history of mankind; a part of our
mental inheritance which has to be reckoned with in all efforts at social
or individual improvement, a factor for good or evil which education,
instruction or upbringing may perhaps modify but can scarcely hope to
eradicate.
FOOTNOTES:
[Footnote 70: The following three dream extracts from the writer's own
psycho-analytic experience afford very clear examples of the kind of dream
to which reference is here made.
(1) "I was trying to catch a train, but a gate leading to the platform
was closed and I could not succeed in opening it. Then my father suddenly
appeared, shook the gate violently, opened it and hurried me across the
platform. He opened the door of a compartment and pushed me in. I found a
lady sitting there." The lady here was associated with the mother and the
opening of the gate and door symbolised the sexual act.
(2) "An elderly man" (father symbol) "led me upstairs" (coitus symbol.
_Cp._ Freud, "Interpretation of Dreams," p. 252) "to the interior of
a church or chapel" (mother symbol). "Here hymns were being sung"
(initiation ceremony) "I thought I ought to sing too, but had some bother
to find the right place in the hymn book. Then one of the people said to
me 'You are one of us.'"
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