The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
The sexual aspects of initiation are apt to be particularly prominent
in the case of boys entering a criminal or anti-social "gang". Thus an
acute student of this subject writes to me: "I have often found that a
delinquent boy was initiated into sexual knowledge and practices on the
first evening that he joined his "gang"; _e.g._ in one such gang every
new member had to exhibit himself. He was asked if he knew "what it (the
penis) was for"; this was explained; and after certain criticisms were
passed, the leader, after a thorough inspection, declared "you will do".
There was also a catechism: "Do you know what your mother and father
do..." etc; the result being to discredit them in the eyes of the boy and
to lead him to emulate them or at least to defy and despise them."]
[Footnote 82: A. Schweiger, "Der Ritus der Beschneidung." _Anthropos._
1914.]
[Footnote 83: K. Weule, "Negerleben in Ostafrika," 304. Quoted by Reik.,
_op. cit._]
[Footnote 84: Chazac, "La religion des Kikuyu." _Anthropos_ II. 317, 1910.]
[Footnote 85: Sir J. G. Frazer, "Totemism and Exogamy." II. 144.]
CHAPTER X
THE DEVELOPMENT OF PARENT SUBSTITUTES
Our last two chapters have again been something in the nature of a
digression--a digression however which, we will hope, has not been
altogether unprofitable, inasmuch as it has opened to our view some of
the wider aspects of our problem, and afforded us a glimpse of the extent
to which the aspects of family life which are forcing themselves on the
attention of psychologists at the present day, are the same as those which
have exercised the greatest influence upon mankind in all places and of
all degrees of culture, and have manifested themselves everywhere in human
beliefs and institutions. It is now time, however, to resume our previous
problem--the study of the influence of the family upon the development of
the individual in its more remote, indirect and abnormal aspects.
[Sidenote: Varieties and abnormalities as regards the displacement of
parent-regarding tendencies]
In the failures and abnormalities of development with which we were
concerned in Chapters VI and VII, the principal characteristic was the
persistence of, or return to, an infantile or childlike relationship
towards the _parents_. In normal development, as we have seen, this
relationship is outgrown largely by the help of the mechanism of
Displacement, in virtue of which the emotional attitude towards the
parents is transferred to other persons, who (at any rate in the early
stages of the process) are connected with the parents by some associative
link. Supposing development to have proceeded normally along these lines
for a certain period, it is still possible for an arrest or regression to
occur, as a result of which any of these later stages may become permanent
instead of transitory, in precisely the same manner as in the case of the
earlier stages in which the emotions and feelings are still directly
related to the parents themselves.
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