The Romance of His Life, and Other RomancesCholmondeley, Mary
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The Romance of His Life, and Other Romances
Cholmondeley, Mary
Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- 20th century -- Fiction; Short stories
EUGENIA. I appointed a committee which reported to me on the subject
last year, and I gathered that the present Dons are not more
hysterical than they were in Victorian days, when they forfeited
their fellowships on marriage. You must remember, Henry, that from
the earliest times men and women have always hated anything "blue"
in the opposite sex. Female blue stockings were seldom attractive to
men in bygone days. And nowadays women are naturally inclined to
marry young men, and healthy and athletic men, rather than sedentary
old male blue stockings. It is most fortunate for the race that is
is so.
HENRY [_with a sigh_]. Well, all the "blue" women can marry nowadays.
EUGENIA. Yes, thank heaven, _all_ women can marry nowadays. What women
must have endured in the eighteenth and early part of the nineteenth
century makes me shudder. For if they did not marry they were never
spared the ridicule or the contemptuous compassion of men. It seems
incredible, looking back, to realise that large families of
daughters were kept idle and unhappy at home, after their youth was
over, not allowed to take up any profession, only to be turned
callously adrift in their middle age at their father's death, with a
pittance on which they could barely live. And yet these things were
done by educated and kindly men who professed to care for the
interests of women, and were personally fond of their daughters.
Over and over again in the biographies of notable women of the
Victorian and Edward the Seventh's time one comes across instances
of the way in which men of the country-squire type kept their
daughters at home uneducated till they were beyond the age when they
could take up a profession, and then left them to poverty. They did
not even insure their lives for each child as we do now. Surely,
Henry, it is obvious that women have done one thing admirably. The
large reduction which they have effected in their own numbers has
almost eliminated the superfluous, incompetent, unhappy women who
found it so difficult to obtain a livelihood a hundred years ago,
and has replaced them by an extra million competent, educated,
fairly contented men who are all necessary to the State, who are
encouraged, almost forced into various professions.
HENRY. Not contented, Eugenia.
EUGENIA. More contented, because actively employed, than if they were
wandering aimlessly in the country lanes of their fathers' estates
as thousands of intelligent uneducated women were doing a hundred
years ago, kept ferociously at home by the will of the parent who
held the purse-strings.
HENRY. I rather wish I had lived in those good old times, when the
lanes were full of pretty women.
EUGENIA. But you, at any rate, Henry, had a large choice. I was much
afraid at one time that you would never ask me.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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