Country life -- England; England -- Social life and customs -- 19th century
This, it must be confessed, is a wretched state of things; but it is one
which every person conversant with society knows to exist, and which
intelligent foreigners witness with unfeigned surprise. The worst of it
is that this unnatural system of life becomes the most sensibly felt in
the country. In large towns every man finds a sufficient circle after
his own taste: there the petty influences of locality are broken up by
the multitude of objects, and the ample choice in association. But in
small towns, and country neighbourhoods, where wealthy or educated
families are thinly scattered, nothing can be more lamentable, and, were
it not lamentable, nothing could be more ludicrous, than the state of
rivalry, heart-burning, jealousy, personal mortification, or personal
pride, from mere accidents of condition or favour. The titled have a
fixed rank, and are comparatively at their ease, but in the great mass
of those who have wealth, more or less, without title, what a mighty and
eating sore is the struggle for distinction. In the little town, or
thinly-scattered neighbourhood, every one is measuring out his imaginary
dignity to see if it does not exceed, at least by some inches, that of
one or other of his neighbours. The lower you descend in the scale, the
more exacting becomes the spirit of exclusiveness. The professions look
down upon the trades; the trades on one another. Everywhere the same
uneasy spirit shews itself. Nothing can be more ludicrous, or amusing to
the philosophic spectator, than to observe how leadership is assumed in
every country neighbourhood by certain wealthy families; how carefully
that leadership is avoided and opposed by other families. How the
majority of families aspire to move in one or the other circle; what
wretched and anomalous animals those feel themselves that are not
recognised by either. How the man who drives his close carriage looks
down upon him who only drives his barouche or phaeton; how both contemn
the poor occupier of a gig. I have heard of a gentleman of large fortune
who, for some years after his residence in a particular neighbourhood,
did not set up his close carriage, but afterwards feeling it more
agreeable to do so, was astonished to find himself called upon by a host
of carriage-keeping people, who did not seem previously aware of his
existence; and rightly deeming the calls to be made upon his carriage,
rather than himself, sent round his empty carriage to deliver cards in
return. It was a biting satire on a melancholy condition of society, the
full force of which can only be perceived by such as have heard the
continual exultations of those who have dined with such a great person
on such a day, and the equally eager complaints of others, of the pride
and exclusiveness they meet with; who have listened to the long
catalogue of slights, dead cuts, and offences, and witnessed the
perpetual heart-burnings incident to such a state of things. These are
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