A great expense, that, for a fortune below even mediocrity; painful
moving for the mistress of a family; hard separation, above all, for
husband and wife who truly love each other. They bargain, they would
fain shorten that separation. Would not one month be enough? But the
wise Physician knows better, and says it would _not_; he well knows
that a very short sojourn at the sea side is far more likely to injure
than to benefit. The sudden, the severe shock of the sea bath is
likely enough to injure even the strong; to the feeble it is simply
murderous. You should first breathe the sea air;--acclimatize
yourself. Do this during the month of June, then you shall have July,
August, September, and, in some seasons, even October for your baths,
and the bath and the great, strong, keen winds will harden your frame
against the fast approaching Winter.
Few men are free during the whole Summer; happy the husband who can be
away from the thronged city to pass a couple of the Summer months at
the sea side with his suffering wife. However much he may feel
inclined to sacrifice every secondary interest for her, it is for her
interest that he must remain in the counting house or the factory.
There are strong links in the chain of our daily life which we may
not, which we cannot, break. Therefore, the wife must go alone; and,
for the time, behold them loving, and yet divorced. Shall I give you
my opinion? _Let_ her go alone; better for her than if she went in the
train of some rich luxurious family.
That gregarious travel and gregarious abode have their pleasures, no
doubt; but, also, they have their evils. In such cases we are apt
either to become enemies, or, which is still worse in the case of
woman, to become too friendly. The style of life at a watering place
sometimes, and not seldom produces results which we regret through the
whole remainder of life. In my opinion the smallest inconvenience of
that gregarious watering-place life (smallest but very far from small)
is that the very people who alone would be both morally and physically
benefited by the sea, lose all that benefit by carrying to the solemn
shore the frivolity, the late hours, the false gaiety of the great
town.
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