The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German EditionBloch, Iwan
Philosophy
The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German Edition
Bloch, Iwan
Sex; Sexual ethics
“In these considerations, we have ample grounds for maintaining that
the lifelong union of one man and of one woman should be the normal or
dominant type of intercourse between the sexes. We can prove that it
is on the whole most conducive to the happiness, and also to the moral
elevation, of all parties. But beyond this point it would, I conceive,
be impossible to advance, except by the assistance of a special
=revelation=! =It by no means follows that because this should be the
dominant type, it should be the only one, or that the interests of
society demand that all connexions should be forced into the same
die.= Connexions, which were confessedly only for a few years, have
always subsisted side by side with permanent marriages; and in periods
when public opinion, acquiescing in their propriety, inflicts no
excommunication on one or both of the parties, when these partners are
not living the demoralizing and degrading life which accompanies the
consciousness of guilt, and when proper provision is made for the
children who are born, it would be, I believe, impossible to prove, by
the light of simple and unassisted reason, that such connexions should
be invariably condemned. It is extremely important, both for the
happiness and for the moral well-being of men, that lifelong unions
should not be effected simply under the imperious prompting of a blind
appetite. There are always multitudes who, in the period of their
lives when their passions are most strong, are incapable of supporting
children in their own social rank, and who would therefore injure
society by marrying in it, but are nevertheless perfectly capable of
securing an honourable career for their illegitimate children in the
lower social sphere to which these would naturally belong (!). Under
the conditions I have mentioned these connexions are not injurious,
but beneficial, to the weaker partner; they soften the differences of
rank, they stimulate social habits, and they do not produce upon
character the degrading effect of promiscuous intercourse, or upon
society the injurious effects of imprudent marriages, one or other of
which will multiply in their absence. In the immense variety of
circumstances and characters, cases will always appear in which, on
utilitarian grounds, they might seem advisable.”
In ancient Rome these laxer unions were recognized by law as a form of
marriage, and this legal recognition protected them, notwithstanding the
unlimited freedom of divorce, from social contempt and stigmatization.
“Concubinage” was such a second kind of marriage, which was thoroughly
recognized and thoroughly honourable. The _amica convictrix_ or _uxor
gratuita_ was neither a legitimate wife nor simply a mistress; she had
rather the position of women in our own day who have contracted a
“morganatic” marriage, a “left-handed marriage.” The only difference was
that these ancient unions were more readily dissoluble.
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