The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German EditionBloch, Iwan
Philosophy
The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German Edition
Bloch, Iwan
Sex; Sexual ethics
“Divorce is not happiness, but it is a help towards happiness. For two
human beings who hate one another to continue to live together is a
much greater evil than divorce. Certainly it would be preferable if
husband and wife could continue to love one another as they did during
the first days of their married life; that they should love their
children and be honoured by them. But since humanity is not free from
faults and vices, this does not always happen. Divorce, as we wish for
it, makes marriage worthier and more profound. Such marriages will be
better suited to the new social movements and to the modern spirit.
“=The civil equality of the two sexes must be a fundamental principle
of modern law.= The French Civil Code already recognizes for both
sexes equal rights in some respects; but the wife still loses a
certain portion of her rights in the moment that she marries. She is
in fact rendered incapable of business. The contrast between the
incapacity for business of the married woman and the capacity for
business of the unmarried is one of the characteristic traits of our
legislation.
“Divorce, as it now exists, contradicts the indissolubility of the
marriage bond demanded by the Church. Adultery should only be regarded
as a ground for divorce, and should not exonerate the murderer who
kills his adulterous wife or her accomplice.
“We demand the abolition of the punishment for adultery, because
prosecutions of this character arise either from revengeful feelings
or from litigiousness.”
Justice demands that with this facilitation of divorce, as advocated in
the French scheme of marriage reform, there should be associated
=increased= security for the care of the dependent wife and children
after divorce. In this connexion, =conjugal responsibility= is merely a
part of =sexual responsibility= in general. If two independent, free
individuals have sexual relations one with the other, in or out of
marriage, they thereby both undertake in respect of their =own persons=
and of all possible =offspring=, the duty and the responsibility which
are the outcome of a natural instinctive feeling, namely, “the sense of
sexual responsibility.” This must dominate the entire sexual life of
every human being, as a categorical imperative. In this is to be found
the necessary ethical counterpoise to the activity of boundless sexual
egoism.
For the love of the future and its social regulation, the three
following conditions appear to me to be determinative; they form a part
also of the French programme of marriage reform:
1. =Equal rights, equal duties, equal responsibilities on the part of
husband and wife.=
2. =Facilitation of divorce.=
3. =Individual freedom to be regarded as preferable to coercion. Freedom
best promotes constancy in love.=[184]
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