Buddhism -- Burma; Burma -- Religion; Burma -- Social life and customs
There are very many romances played out every day in the dusk beside the
well, in the deep shadows of the palm-groves, in the luminous nights by
the river shore--romances that end sometimes well, sometimes in terrible
tragedies. For they are a very passionate people; the language is full
of little love-songs, songs of a man to a girl, of a girl to a man. 'No
girl,' a woman once told me, 'no good, quiet girl would tell a man she
loved him first.' It may be so; if this be true, I fear there are many
girls here who are not good and quiet. How many romances have I not seen
in which the wooing began with the girl, with a little note perhaps,
with a flower, with a message sent by someone whom she could trust! Of
course many of these turned out well. Parents are good to their
children, and if they can, they will give their daughter the husband of
her choice. They remember what youth is--nay, they themselves never grow
old, I think; they never forget what once was to them now is to their
children. So if it be possible all may yet go well. Social differences
are not so great as with us, and the barrier is easily overcome. I have
often known servants in a house marry the daughters, and be taken into
the family; but, of course, sometimes things do not go so smoothly. And
then? Well, then there is usually an elopement, and a ten days' scandal;
and sometimes, too, there is an elopement for no reason at all save that
hot youth cannot abide the necessary delay.
For life is short, and though to-day be to us, who can tell for the
morrow? During the full moon there is no night, only a change to silver
light from golden; and the forest is full of delight. There are
wood-cutters' huts in the ravines where the water falls, soft beds of
torn bracken and fragrant grasses where great trees make a shelter from
the heat; and for food, that is easily arranged. A basket of rice with
a little salt-fish and spices is easily hidden in a favourable place.
You only want a jar to cook it, and there is enough for two for a week;
or it is brought day by day by some trusted friend to a place previously
agreed upon.
All up and down the forest there are flowers for her hair, scarlet dak
blossoms and orchid sprays and jasmine stars; and for occupation through
the hours each has a new world to explore full of wonderful undreamt-of
discoveries, lit with new light and mysterious with roseate shadows, a
world of 'beautiful things made new' for those forest children. So that
when the confidante, an aunt maybe or a sister, meets them by the sacred
fig-tree on the hill, and tells them that all difficulties are removed,
and their friends called together for the marriage, can you wonder that
it is not without regret that they fare forth from that enchanted land
to ordinary life again?
It is, as I have said, not always the man who is the proposer of the
flight. Nay, I think indeed that it is usually the girl. 'Men have more
patience.'
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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