The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 10, September, 1836Various
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The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 10, September, 1836
Various
American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
seasoned with some honest pastimes; and a familiar and open conduct
makes more progress than a more severe education, and a dry and
absolute authority. Notwithstanding it's the common injustice of
mothers, who taking always an austere and imperious countenance, judge
not of pleasures but by the sorrow and care of their age, instead of
judging thereof by the joy and sportings they had in times past. It
falleth out often, that they cry out against pleasures because they
themselves cannot taste of them. Howbeit, we cannot be old as soon as
we come into the world; and Mr. Abbot Feuelon condemneth these
constraining formalities, and these dim ideas of virtue, which render
it sad and tedious to young women. Notwithstanding, continueth our
author, as they are destined to moderate exercises, it is good to give
them a slight imploy, for idleness is an unfathomable source of
troublesomeness; and besides, the wandering imagination of a young
woman turns itself easily towards dangerous objects. Therefore also he
will not have them to accustom themselves so much to sleep, because
that mollifies the body, and exposes the mind to the rebellion of the
senses.
“Mr. Abbot Feuelon condemns utterly romances, because, according to
him, young women fall into passions for chimerical intrigues and
adventures. Being charmed with what they find tender and marvellous in
them, what a distaste is it to them to abase themselves unto the
lowest part of housewifery, and to this ordinary life we lead? He is
not yet altogether against their learning some languages, but he
rejects the Italian, because its only proper to read dangerous books,
and he prefers the Latin tongue by reason of the DIVINE OFFICE. But
without mentioning other inconveniences, he forgot that Ovid and
Martial are poisoners far more pernicious than Amintas and Pastor
Fido; for besides the obscenity of Martial, there is in Ovid all that
love can inspire most tender, most ingenious, and most delicate. In
truth, it were a thing to be wished for, that the modesty of a young
woman should make her ignorant of all things that concern love; but it
is convenient enough to know it in order to prevent it as much as
possible. At least it was the advice of Madame de Chartres, a grave
authoress in these matters, and which well may be opposed to Mr. Abbot
Feuelon. The greatest part of mothers imagine (saith the author of the
Princess of Cleves) that it is sufficient not to speak of gallantry
before young persons, to make them keep from it. On the contrary,
Madame de Chartres often depainted love to her daughter. She would
tell her what there was pleasing in it, the more easily to persuade
her of the misfortunes whereinto engagements lead us.
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