The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 5, April, 1836Various
General
The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 5, April, 1836
Various
American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
personal attractions, she moves about--the little magnet of her
circle. Meeting with no events to arouse evil passions, she contents
herself with exercising a petty tyranny over the hearts of the
admiring swains, who follow, bow to, and flatter her. After a few
brief months or years of pleasure, she determines to marry; and at
length selects from her _train_ the wealthiest, handsomest, or most
admired of her suitors. Her heart has no part in this transaction.
Ignorant of the nature of love--ignorant of the principles necessary
to ensure happiness in the married state, she remains ignorant of
the exalting, ennobling influence, which it exercises over minds
capable of appreciating or enjoying its blessings. She is now the
wife--the mistress--the mother. Thus are rapidly crowded on her
duties, for which she was never prepared by education, and which she
is consequently incompetent to perform. Perhaps, for a season, the
current of her life runs smooth. Her husband--either blindly devoted
to her, or bent on the gratification of his own pleasures--allows
her unrestrained to mingle in the same pleasures and gay scenes in
which he found her. She is still seemingly amiable, and perhaps
considered quite a notable woman by the most of her companions.
But a change comes! the sun of prosperity withdraws his rays. She is
now forced to abandon that, which has hitherto formed all her
happiness. Need I describe the result. Her heart, unaccustomed to
disappointments or restraints, unfortified by holy principles,
unsustained by mental resources, and perhaps too little influenced
by conjugal devotion or maternal tenderness, either frets away the
smile of peace and rose of health; or, sunk in self-consuming
mortification, envy or some unholy passion, abandons itself to the
darkness of despair, the rust of inactivity, or the canker of
discontent. Her husband, if his pride and principles have survived
his ruined prospects, may struggle for a time to keep up the dignity
of a man; but his heart is chilled, his exertions are
paralyzed--domestic happiness he cannot find, and too frequently he
is driven abroad in search of those comforts and that peace, which
can be found at home alone.
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