The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
them? It will be in vain to deny the prevalence of this most
pernicious folly, so long as we find a very large majority of the
youth of our country acting under the opinion of its being highly
disgraceful to do _that_ before the faculty of a college, or the head
of a school, which their fathers deem it perfectly right to do every
time _they themselves_ are called as witnesses before the juries and
courts of their country. I have said more on this parental fault than
otherwise I should have done, because I am thoroughly and deeply
convinced that there never can long exist any flourishing schools,
academies, or colleges, in any portion of our country, where so
radically mischievous an error prevails. _Our youth must be taught_,
and by their parents too, that _they_ have no more right to exemption
from the restraints of scholastic law, than _men_ have from the
inhibitions of the laws of their country—that all legitimate human
institutions have a clear, indisputable, and necessary power to make
regulations for their own preservation; that this power _must_ be
obeyed, or it is utterly useless; and that if obedience be proper,
honorable, and indispensable in their fathers, it cannot possibly be
improper, unessential, or dishonorable in their children. Let our sons
be taught _this lesson_ at home, and the absolute necessity of always
acting up to it every where, and we may then confidently hope, _but
not until then_, that all our seminaries of instruction will flourish
in a far greater degree than we ever yet have witnessed. “It is a
consummation most devoutly to be wished,” and _one_, towards the
accomplishment of which, neither time, money, nor intellectual effort
should be spared.
Another fault committed by many more parents than are aware of it is,
that either from very culpable neglect in studying their children's
characters, or from most fatuitous partiality, they often send them to
school, in full confidence that they will prove most exemplary
patterns of good principles and good conduct, when, in fact, they are
signally deficient in both. The consequence is, that should any
teacher be daring enough to communicate the painful intelligence, it
is either entirely discredited, or it comes on the unfortunate,
self-deluded parent with the suddenness and shock of a clap of
thunder. If the account is believed, the punishment justly due to the
real author of the mischief, the guilty father or mother, is not
unfrequently inflicted on the child; or, should it be deemed false,
young master or miss (as the case may be) is immediately taken away,
and turned loose at home to unrestrained indulgence, or sent to some
instructer who has more of the cunning of worldly wisdom than to make
any such startling and incredible communications.
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