The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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Another parental fault is, the interference both as to matter and
manner in which children are to be taught; and this is sure to be
committed in proportion to the self-conceited competency, but real
inability of the advising, or rather commanding party. Let a single
exemplification suffice, out of very many others I could give of this
most ridiculous, but very pernicious fault. I select it because it is
one of those occurrences in the “olden time,” the relation of which
can hurt the feeling of none, but may afford a useful lesson to many.
My informant told me, that many years ago he knew a lady who could
barely read and write, to carry a little girl whose acquirements
extended not much farther than her own, to a school conducted by a
gentleman well qualified for his profession. She announced herself, as
having brought to him a pupil, who was immediately to be taught some
half dozen sciences, the names of which she had somewhere picked up,
but could scarcely pronounce; and that “he must make haste to do it,
as the little miss had not much more than a year, if that, to go to
school.” I was not told whether or not the teacher laughed in her
face, but if he refrained he must have had much more than common
control over his risible muscles. “It was enough,” (as the hero of
Cherubina says,) “to make a tiger titter.” This most compendious way
of manufacturing learned young masters and young misses, when viewed
in its effects upon the great interests of our community—upon the
happiness of families, as well as of the nation at large, is enough to
sicken the heart of any person capable, even in a moderate degree, of
serious reflection. Numerous instances have I known, in my limited
sphere of observation, especially in female schools, where, just as
the pupils had acquired a taste for reading, and were beginning to
make good progress in their studies, they were hurried away, and
plunged headlong into the vortex of gay, pleasure-seeking company,
there to lose—far more rapidly than it was gained—all desire, all
anxiety for intellectual culture. Books, together with all the useful
lessons they are calculated to impart; the whole long-labored scheme
of moral instruction, from which so much good had been anticipated;
the anxious preparation for a life of active beneficence, are all
forgotten or neglected, for constantly recurring schemes of frivolous
gaiety, and utter idleness in regard to all really useful pursuits.
The only subject of intense interest which seems to occupy these
fanatic devotees of worldly pleasure, is _marriage_; and provided they
can succeed in procuring a wealthy husband for their daughters, all
other matters are deemed of very subordinate importance. After the
teachers of these unfortunate girls may have been laboring for years
to convince them that the value of eternal things is immeasurably
greater than that of any merely temporal things whatever, they are to
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