The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 9, August, 1836Various
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The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 9, August, 1836
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In close connexion with this fault of procrastination, is that of
disobedience in general, for the last is the offspring of the first.
Whether it arises in all those cases where it exists, from utter
incapacity to comprehend the true grounds of the sacred obligation,
“to obey those who have the rule over them,” or from unconquerable
aversion to do what they believe to be right and necessary, is more
than I can tell. But the fact of general disobedience is
unquestionable, to the woeful experience of all who have had any thing
to do with the government of children, in any way whatever, requiring
authority to be exercised over them. It is true, we have the often
quoted “video meliora, proboque, deteriora sequor” of a Latin poet, to
prove that we may _see, approve, and yet fail to do our duty_; but I
have always doubted its general applicability to disobedient children.
Most of them appear to have neither eyes nor brains to check their
culpable inclinations, or to prevent their vicious deeds; but awful
indeed, is the inquiry, how this has happened. Parents and teachers
alike, are utterly disregarded by them, when out of sight, unless from
a principle of fear; and that is of no more efficacy in relation to
their moral improvement, than would be the ringing of bells in their
ears. Even the devils, it is said, “fear and tremble,” but we are not
any where told, that such tremors and fears can work any reformation.
No, never—for _this_ to be effectual, must be the joint effort of the
heart and understanding, aided by “the Spirit of God, working with our
spirits both to will and to do of his good pleasure.” Unless the minds
of children can be first thoroughly and deeply impressed with this
truth, and with their solemn, sacred obligation to regard it as of
vital importance, it is labor completely thrown away to try to control
them effectually, except on account of guarding other people from
being injured by them. It is true, they will not be quite so expert in
mischief, if you can so manage as to keep them a long time out of
practice, “the having one's hand in” being a great matter. But the
inclination “_to keep it in_” will still remain, nor can it ever be
entirely eradicated without some much more active medicine than mere
abstinence. The seat of the disease lies too deep—its action on the
heart is too constant, to yield to such regimen alone—excellent, as it
confessedly is, when made to co-operate with powerful moral remedies.
Teachers and parents too, may labor this matter as long as they
please; they may even wear out their lungs, if they fancy such an
experiment, with scolding, reproaching and threatening, but all will
prove far worse than useless to accomplish their object, unless {565}
they adopt an entirely different course from the most common one, and
pursue it, both with body and soul. They _must_ learn to consider
children—not as machines and spinning tops, to be governed by whips,
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