The steps of life: further essays on happinessHilty, Karl
Philosophy
The steps of life: further essays on happiness
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
The various periods of life, then, must deposit and store away in
the human being each a product peculiar to itself; in childhood the
childlike nature, without which a man never becomes a well-rounded man,
exerting a kindly influence upon other men; in youth that freshness
and enthusiasm of spirit which begets the power of doing things; in
manhood and womanhood the fulness and ripeness of all the thoughts
and feelings, and the firmness that springs from a character steeled
by deeds already achieved. Only thus can age also do its worthy task,
not in falling into disconsolate decay, but in the quiet possession and
contemplation of what life was and should be, and in the preparation
for a greater and broader development.
Whoever skips any such period, or, as is more frequently the case,
hastens over it and makes no use of its peculiar advantages, will
seldom or never be in a position to retrieve it later, but will always
have a very perceptible deficiency in his make-up.
To prevent this in younger years is a matter of education, of which
I will not speak here, but in later life it is one of the chief
aspects of that self-training to which a man is indebted for the real
acquisitions of life more than to all the things that others can do for
him.
In reference to its general character, in the aspect which one usually
calls happiness or unhappiness, or a hard or easy lot, experience shows
(and in most cases very plainly) that every life consists of three
divisions, of which the first and the third are alike and the second
unlike. Whoever has had a hard, unhappy youth is more likely to have
a more favorable and successful manhood, but scarcely a cloudless end.
On the other hand, when the days of youth are golden, they are almost
always the precursor of exertions and storms in the middle part of
life, on which there follows a quieter evening of age. Oftentimes this
distinction also holds good for the minor steplike subdivisions of
these three great divisions.
Which is the happier case may well be doubtful. Very energetic men fond
of activity, who are substantially minded not to let “the vestiges of
their earthly days vanish in the æons,” will be disposed to lay the
greater value upon a successful manhood; but sunny-natured men need an
untroubled youth and likewise a rougher middle period, if they are to
be strong enough to exhibit in their age the pattern of a fully ripened
life, perfected in every direction, so far as lies in the power of man.
Once in his life, at any rate, a man must have it hard and heavy if he
is to attain to the right way himself and to gain an understanding of
the burdens of others; and on the whole a strong old age is best suited
for that. And if the childhood days have been joyous, they afford
an afterglow for the whole life, and in the reverse case, a bitter
feeling of wrong. It is likewise difficult to be obliged, for the first
time, to bear the hardest lot of all in old age.
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