The Survey, Volume 30, Number 5, May 3, 1913Various
History
The Survey, Volume 30, Number 5, May 3, 1913
Various
Charities -- Periodicals; Social problems -- Periodicals; United States -- Social conditions -- Periodicals
Take the daily life of any one of our thousands of little school
girls and see how much chance she has to know the science of
home-making or even to acquire respect for housework. She is born
with the controlling desire to copy. She sees high-heeled shoes on
another’s foot; she longs for and saves until she gets shoes like
them. Her tight skirt, her big hat, her very walk, are seen first
and admired somewhere else, and so the home, whether it is perfect
or imperfect, and the school, and the teacher, and what the
teacher stands for, make the same vivid pictures in her mind; and
some day she is going to grow up and copy as nearly as she can.
This little girl wakes in the morning in one of our crowded
tenement houses, wakes to the vivid blue walls, to rooms filled
with feather beds which have been thrown all over the floor the
night before for the family and the possible boarders to occupy.
The dusty carpets, stuffed furniture, long lace curtains and
draped mantle meet her eye, and in this home of unrest there is
always the crying baby, the naturally cross father and the demand
(so well known to every little girl) to hurry up and go to the
store and buy breakfast. Poor little tenement girl, she does not
even know that in well-managed homes breakfast is bought the day
before. She may learn to respect the energy in her home, but she
will never forget the disorder, the picture of congestion and
confusion and of overwrought, tired nerves that has been stamped
forever upon her mind. And no right idea of home is given her to
correct this wrong impression.
Everyone knows the way work is done in our tenement homes; how the
beds are so large that it is impossible to move them out in the
small rooms and make them properly, and how the bed clothes are
pushed across, often with a broom handle kept for the purpose; how
often the small income makes it necessary to rent out the beds in
the day time to night workers, so they are always occupied and
never aired. And every one knows how all these things make a girl
lose respect for her home, then for her family and, finally, for
herself; and how the street seems a peaceful place in comparison.
Ideals of right home-making should in the school correct the home
mistakes, but as it is now, not until she reaches the seventh
grade does this little tenement girl get her first idea that
making a home is a part of education. After she leaves home in the
morning she gets only a picture of a schoolroom with forty or
fifty desks; of a teacher who in no way is associated in her mind
with any house, who, as I heard Mrs. Kelley say not long ago,
often brings her lunch in a music roll so that no one will suspect
that it is food.
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