The Theory of PsychoanalysisJung, C. G. (Carl Gustav)
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The Theory of Psychoanalysis
Jung, C. G. (Carl Gustav)
Neuroses; Psychoanalysis; Psychology, Pathological; Sex
An attentive observer might have discovered
that the elder daughter was the more beloved by the parents. This
affection depended on a certain sensitiveness which this daughter
showed. She asked for more affection than the younger one, was also
somewhat precocious and more serious. Besides, she showed some charming
childish traits, just those things which, through their slightly
capricious and unbalanced character, make a personality especially
charming. No wonder that father and mother had a great joy in their
elder daughter. As both sisters became of marriageable age, almost at
the same time they became intimately acquainted with two young men, and
the possibility of their marriages soon approached. As is generally the
case, certain difficulties existed. Both girls were young and had very
little experience of the world. Both men were relatively young too, and
in positions which might have been better; they were only at the
beginning of a career, but nevertheless, both were capable young men.
Both girls lived in a social atmosphere which gave them the right to
certain social expectations. It was a situation in which a certain doubt
as to the suitability of either marriage was permissible. Moreover, both
girls were insufficiently acquainted with their prospective husbands,
and were therefore not quite sure of their love. There were many
hesitations and doubts. Here it was noticed that the elder girl always
showed greater waverings in her decisions. From these hesitations some
painful moments arose between the girls and the young men, who naturally
longed for more certainty. At such moments the elder sister was much
more excited than the younger one. Several times she went weeping to her
mother, complaining of her own hesitation. The younger one was somewhat
more decided, and put an end to the unsettled situation by accepting her
suitor. She thus got over her difficulty and the further events ran
smoothly. As soon as the admirer of the elder sister became aware that
the younger one had put matters on a surer footing, he rushed to his
lady and begged in a somewhat passionate way for her acceptance. His
passion irritated and frightened her a little, although she was really
inclined to follow her sister’s example. She answered in a somewhat
haughty and offhand way. He replied with sharp reproaches, causing her
to get still more excited. The end was a scene with tears, and he went
away in an angry mood. At home, he told the story to his mother, who
expressed the opinion that this girl was really unsuitable for him, and
that it would be perhaps better to choose some one else. The girl, for
her part, doubted very much if she really loved this man. It suddenly
seemed to her impossible to follow him to an unknown destiny, and to be
obliged to leave her beloved parents. From that moment, she was
depressed; she showed unmistakable signs of the greatest jealousy
towards her sister, but would neither see nor admit that she was
jealous.
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