The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.Gomme, Alice Bertha
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The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.
Gomme, Alice Bertha
Folklore -- Great Britain; Games -- Great Britain
The game, while not so interesting a one to us as “Three Dukes,” and
“Three Knights,” has its particular or peculiar features. It is probably
later, and shows more clearly that position and wealth were of
importance to a man in the obtaining of a wife. Individually he has not
(apparently) courted the girl before, but he comes for that purpose now.
He may be announcing himself under the various ranks or professions
mentioned, before stating his real position; or, this may show that the
girl having many suitors, and those of all degrees, the “mother” or
relatives are actuated by purely mercenary motives, and wish to select
the best and richest suitor for her. We must remember that it was
accounted great honour to a girl to have many suitors and amongst these
men distinguished by the performance of brave deeds, which had gained
them renown and pre-eminence, or wealth. The fact that the rejection or
acceptance of the suitors is made known to the girl by the “mother,” or
person having authority, shows that “sanction” or permission is
necessary, and that “rejection” or “acceptance” is signified to the
suitors in the words, you “may not,” or, you “may” have a lodging here,
signifies admission into the family. This is a most interesting feature.
The girl is to “wake up,” that would be to rouse up, be merry, dress in
bridal array and prepare for the coming festival. She is also given to
the suitors with “in her pocket one hundred pounds,” and “on her finger
a gay gold ring.” This, it will be seen, is given her by her “mother” or
person having authority, and probably refers to the property the girl
brings with her to her new abode for her proper maintenance there; the
ring shows likewise her station and degree in her former abode, and is
the token that she is fit bride for a king, and must be treated
accordingly. Curious, too, is “Here’s my daughter safe and sound,” which
looks like a warrant or guarantee of the girl’s fitness to be a bride.
The expression “walk with,” meaning “to marry,” again occurs in this
game as in “Three Dukes.” The line occurring in two versions, “And down
by the door they bend their knee,” is suggestive of courtesy shown to
the bride and her family at the threshold of the house.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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