The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage ceremonies.] 6. The marriage ceremonies are of the ordinary
low-caste type. A Brâhman is consulted as to whether the union is
likely to be propitious (garna ganna). The betrothal is concluded by
giving the bride’s father a rupee or less to clench the bargain.
Baheliyas appear invariably to marry their brides by the dola form, in
which the ceremonies are performed at the house of the bridegroom. Some
eight days before the wedding the bride is brought over to the
bridegroom’s house. Two or three days before the wedding day a pavilion
(mânro) is erected, in the centre of which a ploughshare (haris), the
stalk of a plantain tree and a bamboo are fixed. Under these are placed
the family pestle and mortar and grindstone for spices. Besides these
are placed a water jar (kalsa) covered with a saucer (parai) filled
with barley and decorated with lumps of cowdung and splashes of red
lead. The same evening the matmangar ceremony is performed in the usual
way. The day before the wedding is the bhatwân, when the clansmen are
feasted. On the wedding day the bridegroom is bathed, his nails are
pared, and he is dressed in a red coat with a yellow loin cloth. He
then parades on horseback through the village, and on his return sits
down with his clansmen. At night he is called into the house, and he
and the bride are seated in a square in a courtyard, when the bride’s
father washes their feet with water (pânw-pûja). The Brâhman then
recites the verses (mantra), and the pair worship Gauri and Ganesa. The
bride’s father, then taking some kusa grass and water, gives his
daughter to the bridegroom (kanyâdân). He next applies red lead to the
parting of her hair: their clothes are knotted together, and they move
five times round the centre pole of the pavilion, while parched maize
is thrown over them (lawa parachhan). The pair go into the retiring
room (kohabar), where his brother-in law’s wife (sarhaj) plays jokes on
the bridegroom by sitting on his back and refusing to release him until
she receives a present. A lighted lamp with two wicks is placed there,
and the bridegroom joins the two wicks together as an emblem of union
with the bride. Next follows a feast to the clansmen, who return next
day. After the marriage is concluded Kâlu Bîr and Parihâr are
worshipped. On the fourth day after the wedding, the bride and
bridegroom, accompanied by the barber’s wife, go to a neighbouring tank
or stream and then drown the sacred water jar (kalsa) and the marriage
festoons (bandanwâr). On their way home they worship the old fig trees
of the village, which are supposed to be the abode of evil spirits,
with an offering of water and washed rice (achchhat). Some offer also
sweetmeats and grain. The binding part of the marriage ceremony is the
washing of the bridegroom’s feet by the bride’s father, and the rubbing
of red lead by the bridegroom on the parting of the bride’s hair.
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