The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
Adoption and succession
are recognized under the usual local rules of Hindu law.
[Domestic ceremonies, Birth and Marriage.] 3. The mother after birth is
attended for six days by the Chamâin midwife, and then for six days by
the barber’s wife. On the twelfth day the usual ceremony of
purification is performed. The husband is debarred from cohabitation
with his wife for six months after birth. When the child is able to
walk, the ear-boring ceremony is performed, and after that the child
must eat according to caste rules. Marriages are arranged by the family
priest (purohit) and barber. When the proposal is accepted the envoys
get a feast (bhâji) in the house of the bride. The betrothal is
confirmed by the ceremony of marking (tîka) the forehead of the
bridegroom by the father or one of the male relatives of the bride.
Next day her envoys (tilakahru) after being entertained return home.
Five days before the wedding is the matmangar, which is performed in
the usual way, [210] except that after worshipping the drum of the
Chamâr, which is carried in the women’s procession, by marking it with
red lead, the earth is dug by the oldest woman in the family, and
carried by her and placed in the marriage shed. In the centre of the
shed is fixed a branch of the sacred cotton tree (semal), and near it
the holy water vessel (kalsa) is placed on a mound formed of the sacred
earth. The usual anointing of bride and bridegroom, which is started by
the Pandit, follows. A day before the wedding is the mantri pûja. In a
special room some lumps of cowdung are fixed on the wall, and in them
some blades of the dûb grass, mango leaves, and a bit of yellow cloth
are fastened. On these the bridegroom pours a little butter, and then
the worship of the sword (kharag) is done. A relative of the bride
holds the sword in both his hands, and the bridegroom’s mother marks it
with a mixture of ground rice and turmeric. Then an earthen pot full of
sesamum grain is broken with the handle of the sword, and the grain
scattered: an emblem, it is said, of the manner in which the enemies of
the bridegroom who may dare to interfere with his marriage are to be
scattered abroad. The sword is then placed in the middle of the
marriage shed, an obvious survival of marriage by capture. After this a
goat is sacrificed to the sword. In the evening there is a general
feast known as bhatwân. This consists of rice and pulse, and must
include cakes made of the urad pulse (bara). Before the bridegroom
starts for the bride’s house he is bathed by the barber, and the water
thus used is collected in a vessel and taken to the bride’s house,
where it is mixed with that in which the bride is bathed. As the
bridegroom starts his mother does the usual wave ceremony (parachhan)
over him. At the bride’s village they are met by her friends, led by
the barber, who brings a yellow cloth, which he lays on the roof of the
bridegroom’s litter. At the bride’s door the bridegroom sits in a
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account