The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage.] 7. Chamârs show an increasing tendency to the adoption of
infant marriage. The usual age to the east of the Province is between
four and eight, and it is not uncommon in Ballia for little girls of
three to be married. It is very seldom that a girl remains unmarried
after the age of eight. There are no regular marriage brokers employed;
the negotiations are conducted by a member of the family who is known
as agua. As among other Hindu castes marriage is looked upon as a
sacrament, and not based on contract. It is complete and binding once
the prescribed ceremonies are gone through, and its validity does not
depend on the express or implied consent of the parties. But no
marriage is carried out without the consent of all the relations, even
those who are distant, and the descent and family connections of both
bride and bridegroom are carefully enquired into before the engagement
is made. In Mirzapur the bride-price payable to her relations is two
rupees and five sers of coarse sugar. In Ballia they deny that there is
a bride-price; but it is admitted that, if the parents of the bride are
very poor, the father of the bridegroom may give as much as four rupees
to defray the marriage expenses. As has been said, both bride and
bridegroom are carefully examined as to whether they are free from any
physical defect, and, as a general rule, if such be subsequently
ascertained, it would not be a valid ground for annulling the marriage.
If the husband become a lunatic after marriage, the wife in Ballia
would not be entitled to leave him, provided his relations continued to
support her; and in the same way the husband of a mad wife is held
bound to support her. Impotence or such mutilation as renders sexual
intercourse impossible is valid grounds for dissolving the marriage.
But, as a matter of fact, impotency, proved to the satisfaction of the
council, is the only valid reason for a wife abandoning her husband.
Divorce in the strict sense of the term is unknown; but a husband may
turn his wife out of the house for proved infidelity, while she cannot
leave him even if he be unfaithful to her, provided he gives her food
and clothes. A woman, whose expulsion has been recognised by the
council, can remarry by the sagâi or karâo form. The offspring of such
informal marriages rank equally for purposes of inheritance with those
of regularly-married virgin brides. As regards the offspring of illicit
connections they follow the caste and tribe of the father unless the
mother was a Musalmân, or of some tribe lower than a Chamâr in the
social scale. Such people are known by the name of Suratwâl or
Suratwâla. When a Chamâr takes a woman from a caste superior to his
own, their children will be recognised as members of the caste; but if
she be inferior to him, their children are considered illegitimate, and
will not inherit. This is always the case when the woman is a Bhangi,
Dom, Dhobi, Kûnchbandhua, or Musahar.
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