The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
28. Of the Magahiyas of Gorakhpur Mr. Kennedy writes:—“The birth of a
Domra is always celebrated by a sacrifice to Gandak and Samaiya.
Marriages are contracted when the boy is about ten years old. The
matter is settled by a go-between. The boy’s father pays for the
marriage feast and gives presents to the father of the girl; but the
Magahiyas deny that there is any idea of purchase. No religious
ceremony accompanies the marriage. A panchâyat is assembled, a feast
held, and the girl henceforth resides with her father-in-law. A man is
not restricted in the number of his wives, and concubinage is also
permitted, but the concubine is held in somewhat less esteem than the
wife. A woman is apparently allowed to leave her husband and transfer
herself to another; but in that case she becomes a concubine. The
panchâyat will not restore a wife who has decamped, but they will give
back any property she took away. The frequent residence of the
Magahiyas in jail often obliges women to transfer themselves to other
husbands for support, and makes polygamy advantageous. Polyandry is
unknown.”
[Marriage ceremonies: Eastern Doms.] 29. In Mirzapur the marriage is
arranged by the sister’s husband of the boy’s father. The betrothal
(barrekhi) is done in the usual way by the interchange of two leaf
platters full of liquor, into one of which the boy’s father puts a
couple of rupees, which he passes on to the representative of the
bride. They have the ordinary matmangara ceremony, with the difference
that the lucky earth brought from the village claypit is used for
constructing a large fireplace with a single opening on which the women
of the family cook a mess of rice and pulse, which is placed on a leaf
mat in the place where the marriage is performed. This is an offering
to the Manes, and the phrase used is pitr charhâna. The usual anointing
of bride and bridegroom follows, which is begun by the two fathers, who
sprinkle a little turmeric and oil on the ground and invoke the sainted
dead to assist them in bringing the marriage to a successful
conclusion. It is a peculiarity of the tribe that both men and women
join in the marriage procession. No Brâhman is employed. The boy’s
father repeats the names of his ancestors for five generations, and the
father of the bride does the same for her. Then the pair are seated
close together on a mat made of leaves. The husband of the sister of
the bride’s father drops water on her hands and says:—”Bar kanya
chiranjîva rahen”—“May the bride and bridegroom live long.” This is
done five times. The prominent part taken by the sister’s husband is
possibly a survival of the matriarchate. Then the garments of the pair
are knotted together, and they walk round a branch of the cotton tree
(semal), planted in the middle of the company, five times. After this
the boy puts red lead on the parting of the bride’s hair, and this
constitutes the binding part of the ceremony. They then go into a
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