The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Widow marriage.] 8. “The widow of the deceased, if young, is now asked
by all the relatives whether she wishes to remain in her late husband’s
house or to be married again—a ceremony called nâtra. If she, as she
generally does, wishes to be married again, she replies that she will
return to her father’s house. If the deceased has a younger brother, he
will at once step forward and assert that he will not allow her to go
away to any other man’s house; and going up to her he throws his cloak
over the widow, who thus becomes his wife, and is taken away by him to
his house there and then. Eight days afterwards, when she is supposed
to have done mourning for her late husband, her new husband supplies
her with a set of armlets in the place of those given by her former
lord, which are taken off. The nâtra is then complete. The younger
brother is not, however, compelled to keep his brother’s widow should
he not wish to do so, but it is such a point of honour that a boy even
will claim and exercise the right. Should the deceased have no younger
brother, then the widow is taken away by her father or relations eight
days after the kâta. She will remain at her father’s house for a month
or two, when either she will be given away in nâtra to some man with
her father’s consent or she will run off and take up her quarters in
some man’s house without his consent. The man she flies to may not wish
her to come, and may have no idea of her intention to do so; but
nevertheless, once she has placed herself under his protection he is in
honour bound to keep her, and she remains as his wife. The widow can go
to any man she pleases provided he be of a different section to that of
her father.
9. “Should the father have given his widowed daughter away in nâtra,
her late husband’s heir will at once pick a quarrel and demand
satisfaction from him. As a preliminary step the heir generally attacks
the widow’s father and burns down his house, after which, in course of
time, a committee (panchâyat) is generally appointed to settle the
dispute, when a sum of money, varying from fifty to two hundred rupees,
according to the means of the parties, is awarded to the heir in
compensation. The father will then in his turn demand repayment from
his son-in-law, and should the latter refuse to pay up, he proceeds to
burn down his house and make himself otherwise objectionable till his
claim is satisfied. Should the widow run off, as she generally does,
without her father’s or relatives’ consent, her deceased husband’s heir
will at once attack the man to whose protection she has gone.
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