The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Ceremonies on the return of the bride.] 17. That same day the
bridegroom brings his bride home in procession. When they reach his
house two baskets are placed on the ground near the door, and they both
step in these as they enter. That day the relatives and clansmen are
entertained; and next morning disperse. A week after, the water jars
(kalsa) which have been brought in the return procession are taken by
the bride and bridegroom to an adjoining stream. The bridegroom first,
not letting the bride see him, plunges his jar into the stream. She
searches for it and fishes it out, and the bride plunges her jar in,
which the bridegroom recovers. Both bathe and return to the house
bearing the jars full of water, doing worship as they pass it to the
shrine of the village gods (deohâr). When the bride brings her jar into
the house she pours the contents of her jar over her mother-in-law and
asks if she is satisfied with the match. The old woman gives her some
trifling present.
[Binding portion of marriage ceremony.] 18. The binding portion of the
ceremony is the rubbing of red lead on the parting of the bride’s hair
by the bridegroom. If a betrothal is annulled the bride-price is
returned: but after the marking with red lead the marriage is final
until the parties are regularly divorced.
[Varieties of marriage.] 19. The forms thus described are known as the
charhauwa or “offering” for virgin brides and sagâi for widows. Another
recognised form is known as gurâwat, in which two men exchange their
sisters in marriage. [86]
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