The True George Washington [10th Ed.]Ford, Paul Leicester
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The True George Washington [10th Ed.]
Ford, Paul Leicester
Generals -- United States -- Biography; Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Washington, George, 1732-1799
There can be no doubt that Washington, like the Virginian of his time,
was pre-eminently social. It is true that late in life he complained,
as already quoted, that his home had become a “well resorted tavern,”
and that at his own table “I rarely miss seeing strange faces, come as
they say out of respect for me. Pray, would not the word curiosity
answer as well?” but even in writing this he added, “how different this
from having a few social friends at a cheerful board!” When a surveyor
he said that the greatest pleasure he could have would be to hear from
or be with “my Intimate friends and acquaintances;” to one he wrote, “I
hope you in particular will not Bauk me of what I so ardently wish
for,” and he groaned over being “amongst a parcel of barbarians.” While
in the Virginia regiment he complained of a system of rations which
“deprived me of the pleasure of inviting an officer or friend, which to
me would be more agreeable, than nick-nacks I shall meet with,” and
when he was once refused leave of absence by the governor, he replied
bitterly, “it was not to enjoy a party of pleasure I wanted a leave of
absence; I have been indulged with few of these, winter or summer!” At
Mount Vernon, if a day was spent without company the fact was almost
always noted in his diary, and in a visit, too, he noted that he had “a
very lonesome Evening at Colo Champe’s, not any Body favoring us with
their Company but himself.”
The plantation system which prevented town life and put long distances
between neighbors developed two forms of society. One of these was
house parties, and probably nowhere else in the world was that form of
hospitality so unstinted as in this colony. Any one of a certain social
standing was privileged, even welcomed, to ride up to the seat of a
planter, dismount, and thus become a guest, ceasing to be such only
when he himself chose. Sometimes one family would go _en masse_ many
miles to stay a week with friends, and when they set out to return
their hosts would journey with them and in turn become guests for a
week. The second form of social life was called clubs. At all the
cross-roads and court-houses there sprang up taverns or ordinaries, and
in these the men of a neighborhood would gather, and over a bowl of
punch or a bottle of wine, the expense of which they “clubbed” to
share, would spend their evenings.
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