United States -- Description and travel; United States -- Social life and customs
But before I do so, I would, in gratitude to the said Doctor Solly
and another, say a few words. My sons, previous to joining me in
California, had been several times at Colorado Springs, staying with
a Mrs. Garstin, an English lady I had known in London, who has now
finally taken up her abode there. Her kindness to my poor boys (who
were living a hard life, working as common labourers for ranch and
farm owners in the neighbourhood, and who, it goes without saying,
had no spare cash) was excessive. She was as a mother to them, and
being far from rich herself the doing so often entailed personal
privations. Both my sons, while with her, fell ill, and at her kind
instance Dr. Solly attended them gratis. This was no exceptional
case, he is one of those "who do good by stealth, and blush to find
it fame." When, therefore, I went from the Water Ranch to Colorado
Springs, partly to see the place, partly to get cured of a sprained
back which some farm work had entailed, I went straight to Doctor
Solly, both for medical aid, and to thank him for his kindness to my
boys. I was, indeed, pleased to make his and Mrs. Solly's
acquaintance, and they both, thinking I must be dull all alone at the
hotel, insisted on my dining with them daily during my stay. The
doctor soon put me all right, and I spent a happy week wandering in
the neighbourhood, climbing the Rocky Mountains, and enjoying society
at his house in the evening. Surely one may dilate, even in print, on
the qualities of individuals of the fair sex if it be all praise.
Mrs. Solly is an American lady, and her, among others, I had in my
mind when I dilated on the intellectual and broad views, with
charitable tendencies, of the best class of our transatlantic
sisters. With a high order of intellect, and a capacity for
appreciation such as is granted to few women, Mrs. Solly was, in two
words, one of the most charming companions I have ever met. _On dit_,
and the idea is a nice one, that in many married lives the wife
strives to, and often attains the husband's level. Sometimes, more
rarely, it is the other way, and the woman's intellect soars above
the man's, while he may, or may not, try and climb so high. In either
case, if even perfect success is not attained, the intercourse
between the two benefits the weaker vessel, be that male or female.
But the above theory did not, in either form, hold good in those I
wish to portray. Both were highly intellectual, yet were they quite
different. Their individuality had not been affected, as far as I
could judge, by marriage. Perhaps the companionship begotten thus is
the most charming of any in marital life, but it is rare.
Of the daughter I need only say that she was a fit daughter for such
parents, and seemed to me to partake of the individual excellences of
both, while the English ideas received from the father, the American
from the mother, made a very charming diversity in her individual
character.
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