The Truth About WomanHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
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The Truth About Woman
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Women; Women -- History; Women -- Social and moral questions
"When the parents of the man and the woman meet to settle the
price of the woman, the price depends on how many days in the
week the marriage tie is to be strictly observed. The woman's
mother first of all proposes that, taking everything into
consideration, with due regard to the feelings of the family,
she could not think of binding her daughter to a due observance
of that chastity which matrimony is expected to command for more
than two days in the week. After a great deal of apparently
angry discussion, and the promise on the part of the relations
of the man to pay more, it is arranged that the marriage shall
hold good as is customary among the first families of the tribe,
for four days in the week, viz. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and
Thursday, and in compliance with old established custom, the
marriage rites during the three remaining days shall not be
insisted on, during which days the bride shall be perfectly
free to act as she may think proper, either by adhering to her
husband and home, or by enjoying her freedom and independence
from all observance of matrimonial obligation."[196]
We have at length concluded our investigation of this first period of
organised society, and have ascertained many facts that we can use as
a touchstone to try the truth of the various theories that are put
forward with regard to woman and her position in the family and in the
State. The importance of the mother-age to women is evident. Thus I
offer no apology for the length at which I have treated the subject.
It has seemed to me after careful revision that no one of the examples
given can be omitted. Facts are of so much more importance than
opinions if we are to come to the truth.
Without attempting to trace exhaustively the history or even to
enumerate the peoples living, or who have lived, under mother-right
customs, we have examined many and varied cases of the actual working
of this system, with special reference to the position held by women.
The examples have been chosen from all parts of the world, so as to
prove (what is sometimes denied) that mother-right has not been
confined to any one race, that it is not a local custom under special
conditions, but that it has been a necessary stage of growth of human
societies. My aim has been to illustrate the stages through which
society passed from mother-right to father-right. It has not been
possible to arrange the evidence in any exact progressive sequence,
but I hope the cases given will make clear what I believe to have
been the general trend of growth: at first the power in the hands of
the women, but this giving way to the slow but steady usurping of the
mother's authority by the ever-assertive male.
I shall now conclude this study of the mother-age by attempting to
formulate the general truths, which, it seems to me, may be drawn from
the examples we have examined.
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