The ugly-girl papers : $b or, Hints for the toiletPower, S. D. (Susan Dunning)
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The ugly-girl papers : $b or, Hints for the toilet
Power, S. D. (Susan Dunning)
Beauty, Personal; Women -- Health and hygiene
make a pleasing impression, while now she gets snubbed in a tacit way,
and those who take her up out of pity hardly feel as if they were paid
for it. If women with hay-colored hair could be brought to believe that
light brown, of all others, wasn’t the color for their style, one could
afford to overlook minor deficiencies.
One is tempted to think sometimes that there is a loss in not adopting
the French plan of lining houses with mirrors. If people continually
caught sight of themselves, they would hardly indulge in the grimaces
and gaucheries which they inflict on the world. It could hardly lead to
vanity in most cases, and would settle many vexing problems of dress
and demeanor. One is not always to be censured for studying the glass.
The orator must use it to learn how to deliver his sentences with
proper facial play and easy gesture. The public singer studies with a
mirror on the music-rack to get the right position of the mouth for
issuing the voice without making a face. The want of such training mars
the work of some great artists with blemishes which nearly undo the
effect of their talents.
The injunction that all things should be done decently and in order
means that they ought to be pleasing. The study of ourselves can
hardly be complete without the aid of the mirror, which shows candidly
the cold smile, the vacant, bashful gaze, we give our fellow-beings,
instead of the decent attention, the kind, full glance it is meet
they should have from us, and which we prefer to receive from them.
It shows the frown, the sour melancholy, which creep over the face in
reveries, and leads us to try and feel pleasant that we may look so.
How much confidence one assuring glance at a mirror has given us in
going to receive a visitor, and what kindly warning of what was amiss
in expression or toilet before it was too late! Is our vanity so easily
excited that we are ready to fall in love with ourselves at sight? The
intimate acquaintance with our appearance which the glass can give is
more likely to make one genuinely humble. In a world which owns among
its maxims the gay and wicked refrain of “manners for us, morals for
those who like them,” good people can not afford to neglect either
their toilets or their mirrors.
CHAPTER XXII.
Physical Education of Girls.--A Woman’s Value in the World.--High-bred
Figures.--Antique Races.--Inspiration of Art not Vanity.--The
Trying Age.--Dress, Food, and Bathing for Young Girls.--A Veto
on Close Study.--Braces and Backboards.--Never Talk of Girls’
Feelings.--Exercise for the Arms.--Singing Scales with Corsets
off.--Development of the Bust.--Open-work Corsets the Best.--The
Bayaderes of India and their Forms.--The Delicacy due Young Girls.--A
Frank but Needed Caution.--Care of the Figure after Nursing.
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