The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
Contrary to general opinion, marriage is quite as important a matter
among the Kaffirs as with ourselves, and even though the men who
can afford it do not content themselves with one wife, there is as
much ceremony in the last marriage as in the first. As to the number
of wives, no law on that subject is found in the minute, though
necessarily traditional, code of laws, by which the Kaffirs regulate
their domestic polity. A man may take just as many wives as he can
afford, and the richer a man is, the more wives he has as a general
rule. An ordinary man has generally to be content with one, while those
of higher rank have the number of wives dependent on their wealth and
position. Goza, for example, whose portrait is given on page 117 and
who is a powerful chief, has a dozen or two of wives. There is now
before me a photograph representing a whole row of his wives, all
sitting on their heels, in the attitude adopted by Kaffir women, and
all looking rather surprised at the photographer’s operations. In our
sense of the word, none of them have the least pretence to beauty,
whatever may have been the case when they were young girls, but it is
evident that their joint husband was satisfied with their charms, or
they would not retain a position in his household.
As to the king, the number of his wives is illimitable. Parents come
humbly before him, and offer their daughters to him, only too proud
if he will accept them, and asking no payment for them. The reverence
for authority must be very strong in a Kaffir’s breast, if it can
induce him to forego any kind of payment whatever, especially as that
payment is in cattle. The king has perhaps twenty or thirty large
kraals in different parts of the country, and in each of them he has
a considerable number of wives, so that he is always at home whenever
he changes his residence from one kraal to another. In fact, he never
knows, within fifty or so, how many wives he has, nor would he know all
his wives by sight, and in consequence he is obliged to keep a most
jealous watch over his household, lest a neglected wife should escape
and take a husband, who, although a plebeian, would be her own choice.
In consequence of this feeling, none of the inhabitants of the royal
harem ever leave their house without a strong guard at hand, besides a
number of spies, who conceal themselves in unsuspected places, and who
would report to the king the slightest indiscretion on the part of any
of his wives. It is not even safe for a Kaffir to speak to one of these
closely guarded beauties, for, even if no guards are openly in sight, a
spy is sure to be concealed at no great distance, and the consequence
of such an indiscretion would be, that the woman would certainly lose
her life, and the man probably be a fellow sufferer.
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