The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
Therefore the parents of these ill-fated girls had no option in the
matter. If he wanted them he would take them, probably murdering their
parents, and adding their cattle to his own vast herds. By voluntarily
offering them they might possibly gain his good graces, and there might
be a chance that they would escape the fate that had befallen so
many of their predecessors in the royal favor. These strange effects
of despotism are by no means confined to Southern Africa, but are
found among more civilized people than the Kaffirs. We all remember
the opening story of the “Arabian Nights,” which furnishes the thread
on which all the stories are strung. How a king found that his wife
was unworthy of her position, and how he immediately rushed to the
conclusion that such unworthiness was not the fault of an individual,
but a quality inherent in the sex. How he reduced his principle to
practice by marrying a new wife every evening, and cutting off her head
next morning, until his purpose was arrested by the ingenious narrator
of the tales, who originated the practice now prevalent in periodicals,
namely, always leaving off unexpectedly in an interesting part of the
story.
This extraordinary proceeding on the part of an Oriental monarch is
told with a perfect absence of comment, and neither the narrator nor
the hearer displays any signs that such a line of conduct was strange,
or even culpable. The subjects who were called upon to supply such a
succession of wives certainly grumbled, but they continued to supply
them, and evidently had no idea that their monarch’s orders could be
disobeyed.
The effect of polygamy among the wives themselves is rather curious.
In the first place, they are accustomed to the idea, and have never
been led to expect that they would bear sole rule in the house. Indeed,
none of them would entertain such an idea, because the very fact that
a man possessed only one wife would derogate from his dignity, and
consequently from her own. There is another reason for the institution
of polygamy, namely, the division of labor. Like all savages, the
Kaffir man never condescends to perform manual labor, all real work
falling to the lot of the women. As to any work that requires bodily
exertion, the Kaffir never dreams of undertaking it. He would not even
lift a basket of rice on the head of his favorite wife, but would sit
on the ground and allow some woman to do it. One of my friends, when
rather new to Kaffirland, happened to look into a hut, and there saw
a stalwart Kaffir sitting and smoking his pipe, while the women were
hard at work in the sun, building huts, carrying timber, and performing
all kinds of severe labor. Struck with a natural indignation at such
behavior, he told the smoker to get up and work like a man. This idea
was too much even for the native politeness of the Kaffir, who burst
into a laugh at so absurd a notion. “_Women_ work,” said he, “_men_ sit
in the house and smoke.”
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