The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
There is a curious regulation among the Kaffirs, that a man is not
allowed to enter the hut in which either of his son’s wives may be.
If he wishes to enter he gives notice, and she retires. But, when he
is in possession of the hut, she is placed at equal disadvantage, and
cannot enter her own house until he has left it. This rule, however, is
seldom kept in all its strictness, and indeed such literal obedience
is hardly possible, because the eldest son very seldom leaves his
father’s kraal until he has married at least two wives. In consequence
of the great practical inconvenience of this rule, the Kaffirs have
contrived to evade it, although they have not openly abandoned it. The
father-in-law presents an ox to his son’s wife, and in consideration of
this liberality, she frees him from the obligation of this peculiar and
troublesome courtesy. The native name for this custom is “uku-hlonipa.”
From what has been said, it is evident that women hold a very inferior
position among the Kaffirs, and are looked upon quite as if they were
cattle; liable, like cattle, to be bought and sold. A Kaffir never
dreams that he and his wife are on terms of the least equality, or
that he does not deserve praise at her hand for his condescension in
marrying her at all. A man will scarcely condescend to notice the women
of his own household. If they go out on their several labors, they go
their several ways. Supposing, for example, that a man were to cut
sticks for firing, or poles for the support of a new house; his wives,
in going to the same spot, would be careful to choose a different
path. When he has cut the wood he walks off, leaving his wives to
perform the really heavy labor of bringing it home, and no man would
ever think of assisting a woman in so menial a labor.
There are now before me several photographs representing women carrying
bundles of sticks, and it is wonderful what huge burdens these hard
worked women will carry. A man will not even lift the wood upon the
head of his wife, but expects that one of her own sex will assist her.
Sometimes, when a number of women are returning from wood cutting,
walking in single file, as is their custom, a “boy” will take the head
of the procession. But he will not degrade himself by carrying so much
as a stick, and bears nothing but his weapons, and perhaps a small
shield.
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