The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
It is considered bad manners to offer snuff to another, because to
offer a gift implies superiority; the principal man in each assembly
being always called upon to give snuff to the others. There is an
etiquette even in asking for snuff. If one Kaffir sees another taking
snuff, he does not ask directly for it, but puts a sidelong question,
saying, “What are you eating?” The first answer to this question is
always to the effect that he is not eating anything, which is the
polite mode of refusing the request--a refusal to the first application
being part of the same singular code of laws. When a second request is
made in the same indirect manner as the former, he pours a quantity of
snuff into the palm of his left hand, and holds it out for the other
to help himself, and, at the same time, looks carefully in another
direction, so that he may not seem to watch the quantity which is
taken, and to appear to grudge the gift. Or, if several be present,
and he is a rich man, he helps himself first, and then throws the box
to his guests, abstaining, as before, from looking at them as they
help themselves. When a chief has summoned his dependants, he calls a
servant, who holds his two open hands together, so as to form a cup.
The chief then fills his hands with snuff, and the servant carries the
valued gift to the guests as they sit around.
It has already been mentioned that when a Kaffir takes snuff, he sits
on the ground. This is one of the many small points of etiquette
which the natives observe with the minutest care. Its infringement is
looked upon not only as an instance of bad manners, but as a tacit
acknowledgment that the man who stands up while he is engaged with his
snuff with another is trying to take advantage of him. Mr. Shooter
remarks that many a man has been murdered by being entrapped into snuff
taking, and then stabbed while in a defenceless position. The very act
of holding out one hand filled with snuff, while the other is occupied
with the snuff box, prevents the donor from using his weapons, so
that he might be easily overpowered by any one who was inclined to be
treacherous.
The reader will probably have observed the analogy between this custom
and an ancient etiquette of England, a relic of which still survives
in the “grace cup” handed round at municipal banquets. There are few
points in Kaffir life more remarkable than the minute code of etiquette
concerning the use of tobacco. It must have been of very recent growth,
because tobacco, although much cultivated in Africa, is not indigenous
to that country, and has been introduced from America. It almost seems
as if some spirit of courtesy were inherent in the plant, and thus the
African black man and the American red man are perforce obliged to
observe careful ceremonial in its consumption.
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