Before the undertaker brings in any of the appliances necessary to
the laying out of the corpse, it will be well for him to make his
entrance unincumbered, and be introduced to the persons present. He
must also view the remains, and make such arrangements or alteration
in the furniture of the room as may be necessary to facilitate the
operation of laying out, washing, etc.
The assistant may then be called in, and he shall dispose of
the funeral implements according to the directions given by the
undertaker. After the preliminaries have thus been disposed of, none
but the intimate friends or relatives of the deceased are allowed
to remain while the work of dressing the corpse is being performed.
This is subservient to the wish and good judgment of the undertaker,
who is supposed to be vested with powers of expelling those whose
presence is not justifiable, or retaining others who may have claim
to the privilege.
It should be here borne in mind that the work must be done as
silently and noiselessly as the nature of the case admits of;
and that any subject of discourse between the undertaker and his
assistant, not immediately connected with the matter in hand, is very
much out of place, and will be regarded by the persons present as a
lack of good manners, not to say a disrespectful behavior.
Let it be also remembered that a mortuary chamber is not the place
fitly chosen to consummate the ulterior arrangements of the funeral,
but some other apartment in the house, or even the undertaker’s own
office, are the proper places to perfect subsequent proceedings.
The laying out and dressing of the body being completed, the
assistant may retire, after having carefully removed whatever
articles may have been used in the process; while the undertaker,
who may have some directions to give about the proper care of the
body until the time of burial, or some instructions to receive from
the persons in charge of the funeral, will wait until every point is
settled; or some other time and place may be selected for the purpose.
It is not the sphere of the undertaker, especially at such time, to
press with questions the parties whom he may chance to serve; but he
will abide his time and accept their decisions with becoming respect,
unless some imperative object should make it incumbent upon him to
hasten the proceedings, as, for instance, the danger of contagion
from some infectious disease, or some other equally important reason.
In the matter of dressing the body, especially if it be that of a
lady, this duty is usually performed by some lady attached to the
establishment, or by some lady friend of the deceased, although the
undertaker is often called to perform this office himself. It is at
such a time that good taste and refinement will show conspicuous in
the professional undertaker.
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