"Lord! How you know the ins and outs of ’em!" "Not me. No man ever can. We just glimpse a bit here and there. But this I know; patience is the first virtue with women. Patient, as a spider, we’ve got to be when the fly is a female. Now Margaret feeds on one thing, and if you hold it back you starve her. That’s sympathy, Bowden--just a natural, tender sort of feeling such as you don’t hold back even from a cow that’s just dropped a dead calf and had her trouble for nought. I’ll say it in a word and trust your large sense and justice not to be angered. You’re not so kind as you might be to Margaret. ’Tis summed up in that, and I ask you to forgive me for saying it. I’ve nought to gain, and everything to lose by losing your friendship. I wouldn’t have spoken such a strong thing for any less serious reason than her happiness. And now you can tell me to go about my business if you please, and I’ll gladly go." "Wait a bit and hear me," answered the other. "I can see, fixed up as you are, and hoping what you hope, that it wasn’t all fun for you to say this to me. You’re not the sort of man as ever goes across the road to teach other people or meddle with them. And that’s why I’ve listened so patient to you. Some--most men--I’d have stopped at the first word; because most men be very fond of giving advice and lifting themselves above their neighbours; and that sort I very soon put in their place if they talk to me. But you don’t offer your opinions unasked as a rule, and you’ve knowed my wife since she was a baby, and you’m a thought like her here and there--a softness there is in your nature. ’Twas pointed out after our fight." "I said that very word to her to-day," answered Bartley. "’Tis because I’m rather the same pattern as she that I can feel so sharp about this as even to risk your friendship by speaking. She’d die for you; but would you die for her, David? Well, yes, without doubt you would; but do what’s harder. Try to do the little, twopenny-halfpenny, every-day sort of things for her that’ll show her she’s never out of your thought." The other had retired into his own mind and failed to hear this admonition. His intellect moved much more slowly than Crocker’s, and he was now retracing an incident. "To show you the softness of her," he said, "I may tell you that when you was coming to see us, she begged me to take down the fight-colours--the two handkerchers you might have seen hanging in shiny wood frames one on each side of the parlour looking-glass in my house. She said that it would hurt your feelings cruel to see the signs of the battle there, and I think even Rhoda looked a sort of question with her eyes at me. ’But no,’ I said. ’He’s not a fool. ’Twill be no pain to him to see ’em.’ And I wouldn’t take ’em down. Rhoda saw it my way; but Margaret kept on to the end that ’twas not a proper thing--’specially as you came at my invitation to tea. Yet, of course you didn’t mind seeing your fogle there?"