Now this American girl had erred through ignorance of the fact that in
France servants are treated as humble friends. The man who brings your
matutinal coffee says “Good morning” on entering the room, and inquires
if “Monsieur has slept well,” expecting to be treated with the same
politeness he shows to you.
The lady who sits at the _caisse_ of the restaurant you frequent is as
sure of her position as her customers are of theirs, and exacts a
courteous salutation from every one entering or leaving her presence;
logically, for no gentleman would enter a ladies’ drawing-room without
removing his hat. The fact that a woman is obliged to keep a shop in no
way relieves him of this obligation.
People on the Continent know their friends’ servants by name, and speak
to them on arriving at a house, and thank them for an opened door or
offered coat; if a tip is given it is accompanied by a gracious word. So
rare is this form of civility in America and England (for Britons err as
gravely in this matter as ourselves) that our servants are surprised and
inclined to resent politeness, as in the case of an English butler who
recently came to his master and said he should be “obliged to leave.” On
being questioned it came out that one of the guests was in the habit of
chatting with him, “and,” added the Briton, “I won’t stand being took
liberties with by no one.”
Some years ago I happened to be standing in the vestibule of the Hôtel
Bristol as the Princess of Wales and her daughters were leaving. Mr.
Morlock, the proprietor, was at the foot of the stairs to take leave of
those ladies, who shook hands with and thanked him for his attention
during their stay, and for the flowers he had sent. Nothing could have
been more gracious and freer from condescension than their manner, and it
undoubtedly produced the best impression. The waiter who served me at
that time was also under their charm, and remarked several times that
“there had never been ladies so easy to please or so considerate of the
servants.”
My neighbor at dinner the other evening confided to me that she was “worn
out being fitted.” “I had such an unpleasant experience this morning,”
she added. “The _jupière_ could not get one of my skirts to hang
properly. After a dozen attempts I told her to send for the forewoman,
when, to my horror, the girl burst out crying, and said she should lose
her place if I did. I was very sorry for her, but what else could I do?”
It does not seem as if that lady could be very popular with inferiors,
does it?
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