When in this country, a properly brought up young aristocrat is presented
by her mamma to an admiring circle of friends, she is quite a _blasée_
person. The dancing classes she has attended for a couple of years
before her début (that she might know the right set of youths and
maidens) have taken the bloom off her entrance into the world. She and
her friends have already talked over the “men” of their circle, and
decided, with a sigh, that there were matches going about. A juvenile
Newporter was recently overheard deploring (to a friend of fifteen
summers), “By the time we come out there will only be two matches in the
market,” meaning, of course, millionnaires who could provide their brides
with country and city homes, yachts, and the other appurtenances of a
brilliant position. Now, the unfortunate part of the affair is, that
such a worldly-minded maiden will in good time be obliged to make her
début, dine, and dance through a dozen seasons without making a new
acquaintance. Her migrations from town to seashore, or from one country
house to another, will be but changes of scene: the actors will remain
always the same. When she dines out, she can, if she cares to take the
trouble, make a fair guess as to who the guests will be before she
starts, for each entertainment is but a new shuffle of the too well-known
pack. She is morally certain of being taken in to dinner by one of fifty
men whom she has known since her childhood, and has met on an average
twice a week since she was eighteen.
Of foreigners such a girl sees little beyond a stray diplomatist or two,
in search of a fortune, and her glimpses of Paris society are obtained
from the windows of a hotel on the Place Vendôme. In London or Rome she
may be presented in a few international salons, but as she finds it
difficult to make her new acquaintances understand what an exalted
position she occupies at home, the chances are that pique at seeing some
Daisy Miller attract all the attention will drive my lady back to the
city where she is known and appreciated, nothing being more difficult for
an American “swell” than explaining to the uninitiated in what way her
position differs from that of the rest of her compatriots.
When I see the bevies of highly educated and attractive girls who make
their bows each season, I ask myself in wonder, “Who, in the name of
goodness, are they to marry?”
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