England -- Social life and customs -- 19th century -- Fiction; English fiction -- 19th century
'I don't know. It may only mean that one sees too clearly the root
facts of existence. I have another mood (less frequent) in which I try
to persuade myself that I don't care much about the child; that his
future doesn't really concern me at all. Why should it? He's just one
of the millions of human beings who come and go. A hundred years
hence--what of him and of me? What can it matter how he lived and how
he died? The best kind of education would be that which hardened his
skin and blunted his sympathies. What right have I to make him
sensitive? The thing is, to get through life with as little suffering
as possible. What monstrous folly to teach him to wince and cry out at
the sufferings of other people! Won't he have enough of his own before
he has done? Yet that's what we shall aim at--to cultivate his
sympathetic emotions, so that the death of a bird shall make him sad,
and the sight of human distress wring his heart. Real kindness would
try to make of him a healthy ruffian, with just enough conscience to
keep him from crime.'
'Theory for theory, I prefer this,' said Morton. 'To a certain extent I
try to act upon it.'
'You do?'
'Just because I know that my own tendency is to over-softness. I have
sometimes surprised my wife by bidding Harry disregard things that
appealed to his pity. You remember what old Hobbes says: "_Homo malus,
puer robustus_"? There was more truth in it in his day than in ours.
It's natural for a boy to be a good deal of a savage, but our
civilisation is doing its best to change that. Why, not long ago the
lad asked me whether fishing wasn't cruel. He evidently felt that it
was, and so do I; but I couldn't say so. I laughed it off, and told him
that a fish diet was excellent for the brains!'
'I hope I may have as much courage,' said Harvey.
'Life is a compromise, my dear fellow. If the world at large would
suddenly come round to a cultivation of the amiable virtues--well and
good. But there's no hope of it. As it is, our little crabs must grow
their hard shell, or they've no chance.'
'What about progress? In educating children, we are making the new
world.'
Morton assented.
'But there's no hurry. The growth must be gradual--will be, whether we
intend it or not. The fact is, I try not to think overmuch about my
children. It remains a doubt, you know, whether education has any
influence worth speaking of.'
'To me,' said Harvey, 'the doubt seems absurd. In my own case, I know,
a good system of training would have made an enormous difference.
Practically, I was left to train myself, and a nice job I made of it.
Do you remember how I used to talk about children before I had one? I
have thought it was the talk of a fool; but, perhaps, after all, it had
more sanity than my views nowadays.'
'_Medio tutissimus_,' murmured Basil.
'And what about your girls?' asked the other, when they had smoked in
silence. 'Is the difficulty greater or less?'
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