The Wide World Magazine, Vol. 22, No. 127, October to March, 1909Various
History
The Wide World Magazine, Vol. 22, No. 127, October to March, 1909
Various
Adventure stories -- Periodicals; English periodicals; History, Modern -- 20th century -- Periodicals; Voyages and travels -- Periodicals
The Wasukuma, a tribe living to the south of the Victoria Nyanza,
conduct their love-making as follows: When a man has spied out a
woman whom he fancies, he sends a friend to her parents' house to
reconnoitre. On arriving he stands at the door, and the people of the
house invite him inside and offer him a stool. They then enter into
conversation with him and ask his business. Without hesitation he tells
them that he has been commissioned by a certain person who wants a wife
to come and be his spokesman. If the father of the girl is pleased
with the proposed alliance he gives the spokesman a goat, which he
thankfully accepts, returning with joy to the anxious swain to announce
the success of his mission.
The day of the great marriage palaver having arrived, the relations
and friends of both parties assemble and dispose themselves into two
groups--one group being the relations and friends of the bride, and the
other of the bridegroom. The hills and vales resound with the eloquence
of the orators who speak on either side. But, strange to say, they
speak of the stones lying around as representing cattle, and do not
address their audience directly. A speaker on behalf of the bridegroom
rises and names a certain number of stones (_i.e._, cattle); and when
he has finished, a member of the opposite group rises and says the
number of "stones" named is not enough. So they go on from morning till
night, debating the number of cattle to be paid as dowry. When they
have come to an agreement, the bride's friends take away the cattle;
and afterwards beer is made and an ox killed for the wedding-feast. The
friends then assemble at the house of the bride, where they eat, drink,
and dance for two days, and then disperse, save four or five special
friends of the bridegroom, who remain at the house until the ceremonial
washing is over. Then they too depart--all save one, who remains two
days more to see how the young couple get on, and to carry the tidings
to the bridegroom's friends.
[Illustration: AN ENGAGED COUPLE--THE MISSION COOK AND HIS FIANCÉE.
_From a Photo. by Rev. H. Cole._]
Last, but not least, I will relate the strange but interesting methods
of the Wagogo--a tribe found two hundred and fifty miles west from
the coast opposite Zanzibar. A woman of this tribe always refuses a
man when he first proposes to her. Knowing the usual tactics of the
opposite sex, the man does not take "No" for an answer, but keeps on
bombarding the citadel until he has captured it. Sometimes, however, it
happens that the woman really means what she says, and the man cannot
by hook or by crook cajole her into marrying him!
[Illustration: BRIDE AND BRIDEGROOM.
_From a Photo. by Rev. T. B. R. Westgate._]
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