But in France and elsewhere mothers tell us how clear, intelligent,
and universally interested their daughters are, and at the same time
how critical, how free from ardour and enthusiasm. It is not the hasty
love marriage that many mothers now fear for their daughters, but a
worldly-wise marriage without love.
Footnote 4:
See _Love and Ethics_, Ralph Fletcher Seymour, Chicago, and also
_Mutter und Kind_, published in Germany only, Pan-Verlag. My plan is a
paternity assessment upon society as a contribution to the maintenance
of children and a compensation of motherhood by the state.
Society has already shown by a series of institutions, maternity
assurance, infants’ milk distribution, clothing and feeding of
children, and many kindred social efforts, that the maintenance
afforded by the father is not sufficient for the young generation;
quite as little is the mother’s care, which is supplemented by other
means, crèches, etc. But when the _child_ finally becomes the
unconscious “head of the family,” then it will be the affair of
society to requite maternity. Marriage will then signify only the
living together of two people upon the ground of love and the common
parenthood of children. _Maternal right_ will _in law_ take the place
of _paternal right_, but _in reality_ the father will continue to
retain all the influence upon the children which he _personally_ is
able to exert, just as has been hitherto the case with the mother.
In such circumstances there will be no more illegitimate children; no
mothers driven out from the care of tender children to earn their
daily bread; no fathers who avoid their economic duties toward their
children, and who cannot be compelled by society to perform at least
that paternal duty which animals perform now better than men: that of
contributing their part to the maintenance of their progeny. There
will be no mothers who for the sake of their own and their children’s
maintenance need to stay with a brutal man; no mothers who, in case of
a separation, can be deprived of their children on any ground except
that of their own unworthiness. In a word, society must—upon a higher
plane—restore the arrangement which is already found in the lower
stages of civilisation, the arrangement which nature herself created:
that mother and child are most closely bound together, that they
together, above all, form the family, in which the father enters
through the mother’s or his own free will.
Footnote 5:
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