is true, that woman should be allowed to “develop her gifts,” but she
should “administer” them for the benefit of others; they desired that
she should receive _new rights_ from law and custom, but that she should
seek always in _law and custom support and security for her action_. The
young women’s rights advocates, on the other hand, believe that their
own growth, just as that of animals and trees, is intended above all for
self-development, that in their own character the direction for their
growth is specified, and that they have not the right to confine
themselves by circumstances or subject themselves to influences by which
they know they hinder the development of their powers, according to
their individual natures. The more refined the feeling of personality
becomes, the more exactly these young people understand how to choose
what is essential for them and to repudiate what is a hindrance. But
before they attain this certainty they evince often an unnecessary lack
of consideration, and the family is often right when it speaks of the
egoism of youth. They find no opportunity for helping father or mother
nor for participation in the elders’ interests. The whole family is
rarely assembled even at meal-time; the daughters as well as the sons
rush off to lectures, work, sport, clubs. The mother who sees how
occupied the daughters are has not the heart to add to their work or to
thwart them in their pleasures; thus she allows the selfishness of the
young creatures to increase to the point where she herself in
indignation begins—seasonably and unseasonably—to react against it. The
young girl answers her mother’s reproof then with the complaint that,
“Mamma does not understand” her and that she is “behind her time.”
Especially the young examination-champions distinguish themselves by
their arrogance in the family as in the club, where they look down upon
the older ladies who have not passed examinations just as they do upon
their own mother.
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