The conflict is thus solved by some feminists: everything called family
ties and family feeling is referred to the “impersonal” instinctive
life, while our “personality” expresses itself in intellectual activity,
in study, in creation, in universally human ends, in social activity,
etc. And since the principle of emancipation is certainly the freeing of
the “personality,” it follows from this idea, in connection with _this
definition of the personality_, that the liberated personality must
place the obligations of the intellectual life absolutely above those of
the family life; the outside professional work above the work in the
home. In a word, the earlier definition of _womanliness_ ignored the
_universal human_ element, the present definition of _personality_
ignores the _womanly_ element in woman’s being. The last solution of the
problem is quite as one-sided as the first.
The “principle of personality,” as it has just been described is
entertained especially in America. In Europe there are still women who
reflect deeply upon their own being and—who have a depth over which they
may meditate! These women have not yet succeeded in simplifying the
problem which is the central one of their life. They know that not only
do instincts, impulses of the will, feelings, form the strongest part of
the individual character which nature has given them, but also that this
part determines their thinking and creating power—their whole conscious
existence. They know that their character receives its peculiarities
through the development which they themselves accord to one or another
side of their individual temperament. In one personality the
intellectual life will predominate, in another the emotional: in one the
ethical, in another the æsthetic motive. The personality becomes
harmonious only when no essential motive is lacking, when all attain a
certain degree of development, a harmony which is as yet only so won
that no motive receives its _greatest possible development_. Such a
harmony has long been the especial characteristic of the most beautiful
womanhood, while the most significant men have ordinarily achieved their
superior strength in _one_ direction, at the cost of harmony in the
whole. If now women believe that they can achieve the strength of men
without, for that reason, being obliged to sacrifice something of their
harmony, then they believe their sex capable of possibilities which thus
far have been granted rarely and then only to the exceptional in both
sexes. What experience shows is: the greater harmony of single women in
a _limited_ existence as compared with the lack of harmony in the lives
of daughters, owing to the irreconcilable problems which their _richer_
existence brings with it. For these problems must be solved, at one
time, by sacrifice of intellectual, at another, by sacrifice of
emotional values. In every case, the sacrifice leaves behind it, not the
joyful peace of fulfilled duty, but the gnawing unrest of a duty still
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