In the last half century, among the Germanic peoples, however, the
family life has already undergone essential transformations, while the
Romantic world still continues to exhibit features which in the first
half of the 19th century were typical even among these peoples.
Marriages are arranged by the father, divorce is considered either a sin
or a shame, the paternal power is still absolute, the homogeneous
relationship among all the members of the family—in joy and sorrow—is
inviolable. The feeling of the son for the mother, bordering almost upon
Madonna worship, and the passion of the father for their little
children, must, however, always have been more characteristic of the
Romance peoples than of the Germans.
Among the latter the attainment of individualism, first in the sphere of
legislation, still more in that of customs, most of all in that of mode
of thought and feeling, has altered the position of the individual in
the family. While the family exhibited fifty years ago a tightly closed
unity, in which women had only slight significance, now the wife as well
as the husband, mother as well as father, daughter as well as son,
assert their personality, not only _in_ the family, but often even
_against_ the family. Wives draw the arguments for their self assertion
most frequently from the principles of the woman movement.
Truly, in the course of the century, many married women have succeeded
in finding expression for their significant universal human or feminine
attributes in marriage, and thus have ennobled it. But the
self-conscious effort to elevate the position of the wife began
simultaneously with the demand that no human right could be denied to a
woman upon the ground of her sex, whether within or without marriage.
Individualism has already made personal love, instead of family
interest, decisive for the consummation of a marriage. In the name of
her personality as of her work, woman desires with ever greater right
full majority and legal equality with man in marriage. Against
individualism, the doctrine of evolution now advocates certain
limitations of the personal erotic freedom to consummate marriage, but
advocates at the same time, contrary to the Christian sexual ethics, new
freedom for the sake of the higher development of the race. Here comes
into effect, the new conception of life by which the possibilities of
development and of happiness in the earthly life have acquired a new
value and force.
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