conflict must remain permanent and _insoluble_.
In this conviction, many women of genius choose the lesser conflict:
marriage without children. Such a relationship occurs not infrequently
in our time in this way: a man of feeling through the work of a woman is
first moved by her being. The man is in that case often the younger or
the less developed. At first, marriage brings both a rich happiness. But
later comes a time when the power of the personality of the woman of
genius becomes too strong for the man; when he feels himself exhausted
by all the sensitiveness and impatience which charge the air about a
creative personality with electricity. He has now had enough of the rich
spiritual exchange and longs for a woman who is only fresh richness,
sunny quiet, easy docility; the now vanished “ingénue” would be the type
of woman who most of all could entrance him.
In another case, it is the wife who becomes wearied, when the man can no
longer keep pace with her development nor afford her new inspiration.
The erotic life of the woman as well as of the man of genius exhibits
two phases: in one they are attracted by their opposite, in the other by
a congeniality of souls; in one phase they have sought sentiment,
intimacy, nature; in the other, soul, passion, culture. The order
changes in different cases, but the phenomenon repeats itself. What both
consciously or unconsciously desire of love is not another individuality
to love but only a means of inspiration.
Yet one thing may be emphasised: the richer the nature of a woman is and
the greater her talents, the more life-determining love will be for her;
at one time making her existence desolate, at another time making it
fruitful. For the woman of genius is less able than the man to renounce
her own fate. This the man is capable of doing, in the midst of passion,
without his work suffering thereby in vigour and strength; the woman on
the contrary—even the genius—loses more easily her creative impulse in
happiness, her creative power in unhappiness.
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