The Women of MormondomTullidge, Edward W. (Edward William)
History
The Women of Mormondom
Tullidge, Edward W. (Edward William)
Latter Day Saint churches -- History; Latter Day Saints -- History; Polygamy
The closing words of the wife of Apostle Woodruff, at the grand
mass-meeting of the women of Utah, have in them a ring strongly
suggestive of what must have been the style of speech of those women
of America who urged their husbands and sons to resist the tyranny
of George III; throw off the yoke of colonial servitude, and prove
themselves worthy of national independence.
Phoebe W. Carter was born in Scarboro, in the State of Maine, March
8th, 1807. Her father was of English descent, connecting with America
at about the close of the seventeenth century. Her mother, Sarah
Fabyan, was of the same place, and three generations from England. The
name of Fabyan was one of the noblest names of Rome, ere England was a
nation, and that lofty tone and strength of character so marked in the
wife of Apostle Woodruff was doubtless derived from the Fabyans, Phoebe
being of her mother's stamp.
In the year 1834 she embraced the gospel, and, about a year after, left
her parents and kindred and journeyed to Kirtland, a distance of one
thousand miles--a lone maid, sustained only by a lofty faith and trust
in Israel's God. In her characteristic Puritan language she says:
"My friends marveled at my course, as did I, but something within
impelled me on. My mother's grief at my leaving home was almost more
than I could bear; and had it not been for the spirit within I should
have faltered at the last. My mother told me she would rather see me
buried than going thus alone out into the heartless world. 'Phoebe,'
she said, impressively, 'will you come back to me if you find Mormonism
false?' I answered, 'yes, mother; I will, thrice.' These were my
words, and she knew I would keep my promise. My answer relieved her
trouble; but it cost us all much sorrow to part. When the time came for
my departure I dared not trust myself to say farewell; so I wrote my
good-byes to each, and leaving them on my table, ran down stairs and
jumped into the carriage. Thus I left the beloved home of my childhood
to link my life with the saints of God.
"When I arrived in Kirtland I became acquainted with the prophet,
Joseph Smith, and received more evidence of his divine mission. There
in Kirtland I formed the acquaintance of Elder Wilford Woodruff, to
whom I was married in 1836. With him I went to the 'islands of the
sea,' and to England, on missions.
"When the principle of polygamy was first taught I thought it the most
wicked thing I ever heard of; consequently I opposed it to the best of
my ability, until I became sick and wretched. As soon, however, as I
became convinced that it originated as a revelation from God through
Joseph, and knowing him to be a prophet, I wrestled with my Heavenly
Father in fervent prayer, to be guided aright at that all-important
moment of my life. The answer came. Peace was given to my mind. I knew
it was the will of God; and from that time to the present I have sought
to faithfully honor the patriarchal law.
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