The women of the Renaissance : $b A study of feminismMaulde-La-Clavière, R. de (René)
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The women of the Renaissance : $b A study of feminism
Maulde-La-Clavière, R. de (René)
Feminism -- France -- History; Feminism -- Italy -- History; Renaissance; Women -- History -- Renaissance, 1450-1600
The real difficulty, then, does not lie in this direction. The difficulty
is to discover a sure method of capturing men. We have already outlined
the two theories; there are likewise two practical systems.
The first consists in really devoting heart and soul to the matter, the
second in the mere playing of a part. The first is concrete, actual,
full of zest and energy; the second is nothing but abstractions,
coquetry, poses, and never extends beyond mere sentimentality. Anne of
France, manifestly wedded to the first system, speaks of it with a warmth
and yet with a wealth of circumlocution that show, not only how much the
question interested her, but how troublesome she found it.
A woman, she thinks, should not push enthusiasm so far as to run to meet
love; she may wait for it, it comes soon enough unsought. In spite of her
very real simplicity, she always impresses us as having a touch of pride;
and besides, she was writing for her daughter. But what a noble heart is
hers, how ardent and how generous! She distrusts the love excited merely
by physical beauty, because she regards it as imperfect, undistinguished,
commonplace, of little stability, subject to all sorts of disappointments
and regrets; but no less—accustomed as she is to deal with things broadly
and grandly—does true love, that which wells up from the heart and mind,
and is only strengthened and sanctified with increasing years, seem to
her precious and firm. When a man can analyse his love and tell himself
that it depends on some definable beauty, however exquisite—that of the
eyes, perhaps, or that of a charming manner or an uncommon mind—in this
case the love is slight. But when it takes entire possession of him, when
he knows not how to describe it nor to what to attribute it, when it
surprises him in the plenitude of his vigour, and keeps him in subjection
to another person of whose will he becomes the mere echo; above all,
when it inspires him with the overpowering consciousness that henceforth
his life may be bounded by no other horizon: then it has a superb range;
it possesses soul and heart; the rest is merely supplementary—a more
complete intimacy, a pledge of affection. The woman a man most loves is
not the one he covets most. At twenty it is easy to confuse sensations
with sentiments; and that is why true love is not known till later. It
is a gradual unfolding; and then it becomes so ardent as to bring into
play all the impulsive forces of the mind. It is by this new emotional
fruitfulness, by this responsiveness, so to speak, to the spur, that a
man’s worth is measured. Externally, on their commonplace side, all men
are alike; their souls alone have different physiognomies: a time comes
when they are stirred to the depths, shaken out of themselves, and then
it is seen that there are great souls and small. Not too great, however,
nor too small; but quite human! We cannot expect miracles, or look for
the perfection God has reserved for Himself. But sometimes the reality
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