The women of the Renaissance : $b A study of feminismMaulde-La-Clavière, R. de (René)
History
The women of the Renaissance : $b A study of feminism
Maulde-La-Clavière, R. de (René)
Feminism -- France -- History; Feminism -- Italy -- History; Renaissance; Women -- History -- Renaissance, 1450-1600
In vain did the women most liable to such treatment have recourse to all
sorts of subterfuges—sleeping elsewhere that night, or rising at dawn;
escape was almost impossible. Margaret of France knew all about it; for
all her demureness, Clément Marot wrote a scrap of verse expressly to
threaten “to give her the innocents” and “see that comely body.” Her
nephew Charles of Orleans made merry at her expense because, “having
risen too late” on Innocents’ Day, he impudently made up for it next day
with his poor aunt and another lady: “I won’t tell you just now,” he
wrote, “all that I saw.” His letter tells a good deal as it is. It is
not surprising that a princess habituated to such buffooneries strove at
least to raise their level a little.
As there was no help for it but to exercise their charm on man the
brute by such proceedings, the women displayed neither pedantry nor
affectation. Besides, if the sensualists thought only of the body, women
thought only of the soul; and here, under a new form, we again trace the
idea that in giving heart and mind and soul to the man of her choice
a woman had really given him all that was dearest, most precious to
her, all that constituted her personality, and that the rest had only a
secondary importance. She had lent her material person to a husband who
had not troubled himself about fathoming her soul: why then should she
think of refusing favours of no consequence to the man who had really
gathered the early blossom of that soul? Just as the most trifling
familiarity disgusted her when it sprang from a vulgar material motive or
was forced, so the greatest seemed to her legitimate and even pleasant
if it was spontaneous, if it consecrated a genuine affection. The lady
who, while taking her bath, would have thought it more seemly to dismiss
her maid, did not fear to receive there in all honour a visit from a
gentleman.
Why should distinguished ladies have deprived themselves, at the levee
they held on rising and retiring, of the pleasure of an intimate bedside
conversation with their lover? In their eyes it had exquisite advantages:
first, the very intimacy of the conversation; then the intellectual and
emotional relish it imparted to the purely physical operations of the
toilet; finally, for the favoured visitor, there was the tiny reward of
platonic love, the little personal token, the special bond which no one
else had. Margaret of France tells us explicitly that she could not have
insulted a man of position and a friend of the king, like Bonnivet, by
excluding him from her “dressing and undressing”; that, further, there
was no harm in Bonnivet’s “taking this opportunity to increase his
affection,”[186] seeing that platonic love consists precisely in loving
up to the very verge of the forbidden.
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