17. Is thy heart right toward thy neighbour? Dost thou _love as thyself_, all mankind without exception? _If you love those only that love you, what thank have you?_ Do you _love your enemies_? Is your soul full of good-will, of tender affection toward them? Do you love even the enemies of God? The unthankful and unholy? Do your bowels yearn over them? Could you _wish yourself_ (temporally) _accurst_ for their sake? And do you shew this, by _blessing them that curse you, and praying for those that despitefully use you and persecute you_? 18. Do you shew your love by your works? While you have time, as you have opportunity, do you in fact _do good to all men_, neighbours or strangers, friends, or enemies, good or bad? Do you do them all the good you can? Endeavouring to supply all their wants, assisting them both in body and soul, to the uttermost of your power? If thou art thus minded, may every Christian say, yea, if thou art but sincerely desirous of it, and following on till thou attain, then _thy heart is right, as my heart is with thy heart_. II. 1. _If it be, give me thine hand._ I do not mean, “Be of my opinion.” You need not. I do not expect or desire it. Neither do I mean, “I will be of your opinion.” I cannot. It does not depend on my choice: I can no more think, than I can see or hear as I will. Keep you your opinion, I mine: and that as steadily as ever. You need not even endeavour to come over to me, or bring me over to you. I do not desire you to dispute those points, or to hear or speak one word concerning them. Let all opinions alone on one side and the other. Only _give me thine hand_. 2. I do not mean, “embrace my modes of worship; or, I will embrace yours.” This also is a thing which does not depend either on your choice or mine. We must both act, as each is fully persuaded in his own mind. Hold you fast that which you believe is most acceptable to God, and I will do the same. I believe the _Episcopal_ form of church-government to be scriptural and apostolical. It you think the _Presbyterian_ or _Independent_ is better, think so still and act accordingly. I believe infants ought to be baptized, and that this may be done either by dipping or sprinkling. If you are otherwise persuaded, be so still, and follow your own persuasion. It appears to me, that forms of prayer are of excellent use, particularly in the great congregation. If you judge extemporary prayer to be of more use, act suitable to your own judgment. My sentiment is, that I ought not to forbid water, wherein persons may be baptized: and, that I ought to eat bread and drink wine, as a memorial of my dying Master. However, if you are not convinced of this, act according to the light you have. I have no desire to dispute with you one moment, upon any of the preceding heads. Let all these smaller points stand aside. Let them never come into sight. _If thine heart is as my heart_, if thou lovest God and all mankind, I ask no more: _give me thine hand_.