The works of the Rev. John Wesley, Vol. 05 (of 32)Wesley, John
Religion
The works of the Rev. John Wesley, Vol. 05 (of 32)
Wesley, John
Methodist Church; Theology -- Early works to 1800; Theology -- History -- 18th century
*The right education of this _sex_ is of the utmost importance. For
tho’ _women_ don’t carry on the _trade_ and _business_ of the world;
yet as they are _mothers_ and _mistresses_ of families, that have
for some time the care of the education of their children, they are
entrusted with that which is of the greatest consequence to human life.
For this reason, _good_ or _bad_ women are likely to do as much good
or harm in the world, as good or bad men in the greatest business.
*For as the _health_ and _strength_, or _weakness_ of our bodies, is
much owing to _their methods_ of treating us when we were young; so
the _soundness_ or _folly_ of our minds is not less owing to these
_first tempers_ and ways of thinking, which we eagerly received from
the _love_, _tenderness_, _authority_, and constant _conversation_ of
our mothers.
*As we call our first language our _mother-tongue_, so we may as
justly call our first tempers our _mother-tempers_; and perhaps it
may be found more easy to forget the _language_, than to part entirely
with those _tempers_ which we learnt in the _nursery_.
2. It is therefore much to be lamented, that this _sex_, who have the
first forming both of our _bodies_ and _minds_, are not only educated
in _pride_, but in the _silliest_ and most _contemptible_ part of it.
*They are not indeed suffered to dispute with us the proud _prizes_ of
_arts_ and _sciences_; but we turn them over to the study of _beauty_
and _dress_, and the whole world conspires to make them think of
nothing else. _Fathers_ and _mothers_, _friends_ and _relations_, seem
to have no other wish towards the _little girl_, but that she may have
a _fair skin_, _a fine shape_, _dress well_, and _dance_ to admiration.
Now if a fondness for our _persons_, a desire of _beauty_, a love of
_dress_, be a part of pride (as surely it is a most contemptible part
of it) the first step towards a _woman’s humility_, seems to require a
_repentance_ of her education.
For it must be owned, that, generally speaking, good parents are never
more fond of their daughters, than when they see them _too fond_ of
themselves, and _dressed_ in such a manner, as is a great reproach to
the gravity and sobriety of the Christian life.
3. The _church_ has formerly had _eminent saints_ in that sex; and it
may reasonably be thought, that it is purely owing to their _poor_ and
_vain_ education, that this honour of their sex is for the _most part_
confined to _former_ ages.
*The corruption of the world indulges them in great vanity, and
mankind seem to consider them in no other view, than as so many
_painted idols_, that are to allure and gratify their passions; so
that if many women are _vain_, _light_, _gewgaw_ creatures, they
have this to excuse themselves, that they are not only such as their
_education_ has made them, but such as the _generality_ the world
_allows_ them to be.
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