The works of the Rev. John Wesley, Vol. 05 (of 32)Wesley, John
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The works of the Rev. John Wesley, Vol. 05 (of 32)
Wesley, John
Methodist Church; Theology -- Early works to 1800; Theology -- History -- 18th century
But reasonable persons will observe, that I spare the _sex_, and only
arraign their _education_; that I not only spare them, but plead their
_interest_, assert their _honour_, and only condemn that _education_
which is so _injurious_ thereto.
Their education I cannot spare; but the only reason is, because it
is their _greatest enemy_, because it deprives the world of so many
_blessings_, and the church of so many _saints_.
If it should here be said, that I even charge _too high_ upon their
_education_, and that they are not so _much_ hurt by it, as I imagine.
It may be answered, that tho’ I don’t pretend to state the _exact
degree_ of mischief that is done by it, yet its plain and natural
tendency to do harm, is sufficient to justify the most _absolute_
condemnation of it.
9. But how possible it is to bring up daughters in a more excellent
way, let the following character declare.
*_Eusebia_ is a pious widow, well born, and well bred, and has a good
estate for five daughters, whom she brings up as one entrusted by
God, to fit five virgins for the kingdom of heaven. Her family has
the same regulation as a _religious house_, and all its orders tend
to the support of a constant regular devotion.
She loves them as her spiritual children, and they reverence her
as their spiritual mother, with an affection far above that of the
fondest friends.
She has divided part of her estate among them, that every one may be
charitable out of their own stock, and each of them take it in their
turns to provide for the _poor_ and _sick_ of the parish.
_Eusebia_ brings them up to all kinds of labour that are proper
for women, as _sewing_, _knitting_, _spinning_, and all other parts
of _housewifery_; not for their _amusement_, but that they may
be serviceable to themselves and others, and be saved from those
temptations which attend an idle life.
She tells them, she had rather see them reduced to the necessity
of maintaining themselves by their own work, than to have riches to
excuse themselves from labour. For tho’, says she, you may be able to
assist the poor without your labour, yet by your labour you will be
able to assist them more.
10. If _Eusebia_ has lived as free from sin as it is possible for
human nature, it is because she is always watching and guarding
against _all instances_ of pride. And if her virtues are stronger and
higher than other peoples, ’tis because they are all founded in a deep
_humility_.
My children, says she, when your father died, I was much pitied by my
friends, as having all the care of a family, and the management of an
estate fallen upon me.
But my own grief was founded upon another principle: I was grieved to
see myself deprived of so faithful a friend; and that such an eminent
example of Christian virtues should be taken from the eyes of his
children, before they were of an age to love and follow it.
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