*How tenderly, how religiously would such a father converse with his children, whom he considered as his little spiritual flock, whose virtues he was to form by his example, encourage by his authority, nourish by his counsel, and prosper by his prayers to God for them? *How fearful would he be of all unjust ways of raising their fortune, of bringing them up in pride and indulgence, or of making them too fond of the world, lest he should thereby render them incapable of those graces which he was so often beseeching God to grant them? 15. _Lastly_, If all people, when they feel the first approaches of _resentment_, _envy_, or _contempt_, towards others; or if in all little disagreements and misunderstandings whatever, they should, instead of indulging their minds with little, low reflections, have recourse to a more particular intercession with God, for such persons as had raised their envy, resentment, or discontent; this would be a certain way to prevent the growth of all uncharitable tempers. If you was always to form your prayer at that time to the greatest degree of _contrariety_ to that temper which you was then in, it would be an excellent means of mending your heart. As for instance: when at any time you find in your heart motions of _envy_ towards any person, whether on account of his _riches_, _power_, _reputation_, _learning_, or _advancement_, if you should immediately pray to God to bless and prosper him in that _very thing_ which raised your envy; if you should repeat your petitions in the strongest terms, beseeching God to grant him all the happiness from the enjoyment of it that can possibly be received, you would soon find it to be the best antidote in the world, to expel the venom of that passion. *_Again_: If in any little difference or misunderstandings that you happened to have at any time with a _relation_, a _neighbour_, or any one else, you should then pray for them in a more _extraordinary manner_ than you ever did before, beseeching God to give them every grace and blessing you can think of, you would take the speediest method of reconciling all differences, and clearing up all misunderstandings. You would then think nothing too great to be forgiven, stay for no condescensions, need no mediation of a third person, but be glad to testify your love and good-will to him, who had so high a place in your secret prayers. This would remove all peevish passions, soften your heart into the most tender condescensions, and be the best arbitrator of all differences that happened betwixt you and any of your acquaintance. 16. Hence we may also learn the odious nature of all _spite_, _hatred_, _contempt_, and _angry passions_. They are not to be considered as defects in _good-nature_, not as failings in _civility_ or _good breeding_, but as such _base tempers_ as are entirely inconsistent with the _charity_ of intercession.